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Maybe some of you who have experience with settings and help me understand this situation better.


I’m dealing with a Jeweler who own two stores in two different locations.


Me and my girlfriend went to visit Store #1 and the Manager said my girlfriend was a size 6 ¼ however when she wore a wedding band she the 6 ¼ engagement ring didn’t fit. She was now a 6 ¾.


The Manager said to buy the engagement ring at 6 ¾ with sizing beads.


I then went to their Store #2 since it was closer to my work. I told that lady that your Manager in Store #1 said 6 ¾ with beads. The lady said, “Maybe we will just do a 6 ½ instead”. I said, “Your employee said 6 ¾”. She said, “A quarter size won’t do much”.


The next day I called Store #1 and spoke to the Manager. She said to send your girlfriend back in the store without her knowing. So, in went the girlfriend for another sizing. When my girlfriend left the Manager called me and said, “She is a 6 ½ because it’s very hot outside but with a wedding band she’s a 6 ¾. I recommend 6 ¾ with sizing beads”.


I told the Manager to call down to Store #2 and tell the lady that…


A few weeks later I received a call from Store #2 telling me the setting was ready. I asked “what size ring is it?” She said, “what you ordered… 6 ½”. I said, “No, the Manager said she was a 6 ¾ with beads”. She said, “I thought we went over this already”.


I got off the phone with her and called the Manager at store #1. She then called me back saying everything is okay, I spoke to the lady in Store #2 and when you pick up the setting it will be 6 ¾ with sizing beads.


Today, I get a call saying it’s completed. I said, “Does it have sizing beads?” She said, “Do you really want them?”.


I almost screamed! I felt like I was on Candid Camera.


I said, “I just want it to fit. I didn’t make up sizing beads myself your manager told me she needed them”.


She said, “Lets do without them and see how it fits, if she needs them we can add them”.


I’m going to see the ring next week. I have a feeling that it’s going to be a 6 ½ or even worse 6 ¾ without beads.


Remember, she’s a 6 ¼ normal, 6 ½ in hot weather and 6 ¾ with a wedding band on…
so the suggestion of her Manager was 6 3/4 with beads. When you get married, remove the beads.
Should I worry about this or is a ¼ of a size no big deal?

I put money down on the ring in form of a check and I''m very tempted to ask for my money back and just walk away. Never thought it would be this difficult.


 
Okay.. first of all do you have any paperwork that shows what you ordered and the sizes you ordered them in? If so... your fine. If they are too small... they have to get you one in the size you ordered. If they are too big but in the size ordered... sizing beads. I''d go, ask for the cash back... and bay for the whole thing with a credit card, however. Credit cards offer many protections and are by far the best way to pay for these items.
 
The paper work from Store #2 says 6.5.

But I had the manager from Store #1 call Store #2 and tell them that my girlfriend was resized and she's a 6 3/4 with beads.

That's all I have...

However lets assume it's a 6.5 - is it a big deal to make it a 6 3/4?
 
I don''t know. It depends on the setting. Some can''t be sized and would have to be remade in total.
 
Well, generally sizing beads are used by people who have large knuckles and thinner fingers below the knuckle. The sizing beads enable you to get the ring over the large knuckle and to keep the ring from spinning when it is all the way on the finger. Without knowing what type of ring you are getting, I wouldn't do sizing beads right away. I would just try the 6.75 w/o the beads. The beads can be easily added/removed later. Because some people find them uncomfortable, I would only use them if you have to. Most of us find that our ring sizes change with the seasons so rings will tend to be smaller in the summer and looser in the winter. Chances are, unless you constantly resize the ring ( which you should not do) there will always be days when it is big and days when it is small. Just aim for a good fit most of the time.
 
I agree with jaszmine. I wouldn''t do the sizing beads unless absolutely necessary and only add them after she has tried on the ring to see if she''ll need them. It is commom for people to need their rings sized up a bit once adding the wedding band though.
 
Thanks everybody...

It''s just a Platinum Cathedral Setting (solitaire)

Worse case - it this store made it a 6.5 - I''ll just have them make it into a 6 3/4 in the future (when she''s ready for the wedding band). I didn''t know what the process was for making a 1/4 size jump. If they just heat the metal and stretch it or cut it.
 
a 1/4 size up on a plain setting won''t be a problem at all..
 
That is probably your best bet. That way, she will not have to wear a ring that is too big while she waits for the wedding band. Then size it up when the wedding is close. Sizing up a 1/4 size with that type of setting is no big deal at all.
 
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