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Rest in Peace Bun (my cat)

MichelleCarmen

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Well, it''s been a pretty tough month on the cat front. A few weeks back, I lost one of my kitties to an unknown illness. He had quickly become ill and the vet said we could try surgery and even that wouldn''t guarantee he''d survive, so we had put him down.

Then I went to the humane society and picked out a new cat and wasn''t aware at the time that most shelter cats are ill with upper respiratory illnessess. His symptoms appeared within a day - lethargic, wouldn''t eat, constantly sneezing, etc., and we took him into the vet and he was given IV fluids and antibiotics. I called the humane society and they told me that he would be okay, that it was my 17 year old cat that I should be more concerned with and that everything should be done to keep the two cats apart. The cats did come in contact w/each other and my 17 year old also became sick. Unfortunetly, as my new cat improved, my older one became more ill. She entirely quit eating and since she already was so thin and elderly, it didn''t seem right to put her through force feeding tubes (if that even would be possible). Yesterday, I wavered back on forth on whether or not I did the right thing, but now, this morning, I know it was the right decision rather than stress her body to even further lengths.

She was adopted when she was a kitten, so yep, I''ve had her that entire time. She was a very fiesty cat up until the very end.

Here she is:

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I am so sorry MC. I know that you are such a loving person and that had to be hard, but I agree that you made the right decision. Better to let her go than to suffer more. She had a long life with you and I am sure she loved you so much in return and thanks you for giving her to rest instead of pain. My heart goes out to you. I have tears in my eyes.
 
I am so sorry
 
Oh, MC... I am so sorry to hear this.
 
I''m sorry MC
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I''m so sorry for your losses MC. Take care.
 
MC --
I''m sorry to hear about your kitty. This must be very hard on your family. The death of a furry family member is difficult and now you''ve had two in a short period of time.

Take care of yourself and your family.
 
Oh MC, I am so sorry about the loss of your kitty - I had to make the same choice several years ago for my 16 year old cat, so I know how hard this is. A difficult decision, but it was the right one to make. I''m so saddened by this, she was so beautiful. hugs to you.
 
Thanks everyone. I was downstairs a bit ago and kept expecting to hear the click click of her nails as she walks across the wood floor.

The only good is that my new cat from the HS is super loving. He sits on my lap, sleeps with me, and also hangs out when I'm doing stuff. He's still a bit kittenish (at 7.5 months) and attacks random stuff and also jumps up and tries to attack my betta fish through her tank! Hopefully it doesn't topple over! He's also good with the kids. Cuddles with them and doesn't run away when they're loud. He is in on the action.
 
Sweet MC, I am SO SO sorrry. *HUGE HUGS*
 
Date: 4/27/2010 11:25:58 AM
Author: TooPatient
MC --
I'm sorry to hear about your kitty. This must be very hard on your family. The death of a furry family member is difficult and now you've had two in a short period of time.

Take care of yourself and your family.
Yeah, I now worry that my kids have been sent the wrong message by seeing our first cat replaced so quickly. Just the thing where if a cat dies, you can just go get another one rather than giving them the chance to morn and miss a cat. We won't be adopting another cat. I've always been a two-cat household type person, but now think that a single cat in the house would work best. Give us a chance to enjoy our new guy in all his many ways and enjoy his kitty "quirks."
 
I am so sorry for your loss, MC
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It is so painful to miss your beloved kitties. Having just gone through this, I want to offer you hugs and healing.
 
Date: 4/27/2010 11:38:22 AM
Author: risingsun
I am so sorry for your loss, MC
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It is so painful to miss your beloved kitties. Having just gone through this, I want to offer you hugs and healing.
Marian - I''m sorry about your loss of Abby. Hugs to you, too.
 
Aww, MC, I''m so sorry for the loss of Bun.
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What a pretty cat. She lived a good long life with you, of that I''m sure!
 
Date: 4/27/2010 11:51:32 AM
Author: Laila619
Aww, MC, I''m so sorry for the loss of Bun.
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What a pretty cat. She lived a good long life with you, of that I''m sure!
Thanks. That photo was taken many years ago at the height of her beauty! She was so fluffy and pretty. . .toward the end she had a difficult time keeping up with her long, thick fur and we had to have her professionally groomed and even had to shave her tummy once or twice (I guess the major challenge of having a long-haired cat). I had hoped to get a short haired cat for the next cat, but while we were at the humane society, I forgot about that when we found the perfect kitty = a medium hair with a huge puffy tail. He''s good about letting me groom him so hopefully he won''t need to be taken in very often.
 
So very sorry, MC.
 
sorry for your loss, mz
 
Poor kitty! Sorry you have to go through this, it''s tough when you lose a pet.
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So sorry for your loss, MC

My cat is old, and I know that day will come for us, and I can''t even imagine it...

I''m so sorry
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I''m sory for your loss MC
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I am sorry..sending hugs and prayers.
 
Very sorry for your loss.
 
I''m sorry about the loss of your cat, MC. As people and animals age, our bodies don''t regenerate as fast and our immune systems get sluggish or weak. 17 is a pretty good age. I lost my first cat to a stroke when he was 16. I''ve had a lone cat, and now I have three. I think having playmates has kept my current three active and young at heart. They are 8 now, and seem happier than my lone cat was at that age.
 
My heart goes out to you.. it''s so hard to lose a good friend..
 
Date: 4/27/2010 12:57:43 PM
Author: HVVS
I''m sorry about the loss of your cat, MC. As people and animals age, our bodies don''t regenerate as fast and our immune systems get sluggish or weak. 17 is a pretty good age. I lost my first cat to a stroke when he was 16. I''ve had a lone cat, and now I have three. I think having playmates has kept my current three active and young at heart. They are 8 now, and seem happier than my lone cat was at that age.
Yeah, I can see how having playmates would make cats more "young at heart." I''m not sure about getting a second, though. . .I read that once a cat has upper respiratory, he/she will always be a "carrier." Is that right? Where they continually shed the virus? One website said that it''s best to have a cat with URI be an only cat. Before I adopt another, I''ve got to be sure it''s the right thing to do.
 
I''m so sorry to hear about your cat. She was a beautiful cat. I know what you mean about pets. We were a 2 dog family for a long time, when the oldest, and then a couple years later the 2nd oldest died. Now we just have one. My husband and my oldest are campaigning for a second dog but I''m really content with the way things are now, fine with having 1 dog right for a few years.
 
Date: 4/27/2010 1:11:19 PM
Author: siamese3
My heart goes out to you.. it''s so hard to lose a good friend..
Couldn''t have said it better....
 
I am very sorry. She was so beautiful. She had a good life with you, and she knew she was loved.
 
Date: 4/27/2010 1:17:54 PM
Author: canuk-gal
Date: 4/27/2010 1:11:19 PM
Author: siamese3
My heart goes out to you.. it''s so hard to lose a good friend..
Couldn''t have said it better....
So true.

MC, I''m so sorry for your loss. Bun was quite the beauty.
 
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