Green with Envy
Brilliant_Rock
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i know traditionally the bride's family pays for the wedding and the groom's family pays for the rehearsal dinner.
In our situation the Groom's family is not capable of paying for anything so the financial burden for the bride's side is higher than normal. Thus we are trying to have a very small, casual, and inexpensive rehearsal dinner event.
Given this situation... can we have a rehearsal dinner that ONLY includes direct family and wedding party? (edited to note we WOULD invite all spouses of family/wedding party)
So this means we are not including ANY out of town guests from either side who are not a part of the wedding.
I understand that if they bothered with the expense of coming far for our wedding- it is traditional that out of town guest are also invited to the rehearsal dinner... but this will double the size of the rehearsal dinner.
Thoughts?
In our situation the Groom's family is not capable of paying for anything so the financial burden for the bride's side is higher than normal. Thus we are trying to have a very small, casual, and inexpensive rehearsal dinner event.
Given this situation... can we have a rehearsal dinner that ONLY includes direct family and wedding party? (edited to note we WOULD invite all spouses of family/wedding party)
So this means we are not including ANY out of town guests from either side who are not a part of the wedding.
I understand that if they bothered with the expense of coming far for our wedding- it is traditional that out of town guest are also invited to the rehearsal dinner... but this will double the size of the rehearsal dinner.
Thoughts?