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Ideal_Rock
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We''re having a small family-only wedding in early January. The rest of the extended family and friends will be invited to a reception/party we''re having in (probably) March. It''s not booked yet, so I haven''t been able to send out Save the Dates. I want to send those though, so that people are aware before I get married that there is an event I would like them to be a part of.
I am in the process of making a registry now, since my aunt is hosting a shower for me in December. When I go make this registry, I know that you have to put in your wedding date. So in a normal situation, I''d put January 8. I''ve never done any sort of registry before, but don''t they close it down after a certain amount of time after the wedding date? I thought I''ve heard that some are closed very shortly after the wedding.
So my issue is with the party - if the registry is shut down at a certain time, should I write in the the date on the registry as the date of the party? Something about that just looks weird in my mind. Can you change the date on the registry at any time? FI suggested putting the wedding date on there for now, until about January 8, then go in and change the date to the party date. I just was wondering if any of you guys knew how that could work. My main issue is I don''t want it shutting down, because Mom thinks most guests are going to treat the reception as a normal wedding, as far as bringing gifts goes. So I just don''t want anybody to have issues accessing it. FI also suggested just making a new registry for the party, after the wedding date, since he thinks it will need to be updated at that point anyway. But I don''t think much will change around the wedding date, because the wedding itself is just parents and grandparents, and I don''t expect (or want) them to bring gifts to that.
I am in the process of making a registry now, since my aunt is hosting a shower for me in December. When I go make this registry, I know that you have to put in your wedding date. So in a normal situation, I''d put January 8. I''ve never done any sort of registry before, but don''t they close it down after a certain amount of time after the wedding date? I thought I''ve heard that some are closed very shortly after the wedding.
So my issue is with the party - if the registry is shut down at a certain time, should I write in the the date on the registry as the date of the party? Something about that just looks weird in my mind. Can you change the date on the registry at any time? FI suggested putting the wedding date on there for now, until about January 8, then go in and change the date to the party date. I just was wondering if any of you guys knew how that could work. My main issue is I don''t want it shutting down, because Mom thinks most guests are going to treat the reception as a normal wedding, as far as bringing gifts goes. So I just don''t want anybody to have issues accessing it. FI also suggested just making a new registry for the party, after the wedding date, since he thinks it will need to be updated at that point anyway. But I don''t think much will change around the wedding date, because the wedding itself is just parents and grandparents, and I don''t expect (or want) them to bring gifts to that.