somedaysunday
Rough_Rock
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- Sep 21, 2011
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Hey Ladies,
As I mentioned in earlier posts, my BF and I have been together for 8 months. We're both 29 and have discussed - in the abstract - that people in their late 20's should generally know after a year of dating whether or not GF/BF is the one you want to marry.
So here we are, 4 years away from our one year, and things are going incredibly well for us. If he asked me to marry him tomorrow I wouldn't hesitate to say yes. Here's the thing - we haven't talked about us getting married. Which I think seems normal, since it has only been 8 months - I know I'm afraid to scare him with a conversation about it. Maybe he's hesitant to talk about it too?
While I know that the least childish thing would be to just risk the scare-factor and be clear with him, I just can't do it yet. My question is: for those of you who are engaged, or who know for sure that it's coming, is there anything I can look out for as a sign that he might be getting in the marriage mindset?
Thank you!
SS
As I mentioned in earlier posts, my BF and I have been together for 8 months. We're both 29 and have discussed - in the abstract - that people in their late 20's should generally know after a year of dating whether or not GF/BF is the one you want to marry.
So here we are, 4 years away from our one year, and things are going incredibly well for us. If he asked me to marry him tomorrow I wouldn't hesitate to say yes. Here's the thing - we haven't talked about us getting married. Which I think seems normal, since it has only been 8 months - I know I'm afraid to scare him with a conversation about it. Maybe he's hesitant to talk about it too?
While I know that the least childish thing would be to just risk the scare-factor and be clear with him, I just can't do it yet. My question is: for those of you who are engaged, or who know for sure that it's coming, is there anything I can look out for as a sign that he might be getting in the marriage mindset?
Thank you!
SS