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PS tends to be a font of useful information: anybody have any experience with this sort of thing?
I posted a v. long thread here after my first miscarriage at 6 months last year, and y'all were v. helpful. And I was posting for travel advice when my second one happened, back in the spring. I sort of felt like an attention-hog by the third miscarriage, which was on the anniversary, to the day, of the first one, so I opted for a discreet silence ... but I also finally got referred to a specialist by my gynecologist. Generally, they want you to wait until you hit three, like you're in a fairy tale, before they classify you as suffering "recurrent miscarriage" and do a more in-depth work-up.
And, hey! It turned something up. It appears that I have a blood clotting disorder called protein C deficiency. On the one hand, I'm relieved because now we can start moving forward with treatment, etc. On the other hand, I'm bloody furious with the medical establishment in general and my doctors in particular.
Nobody could have mentioned this possibility back around the time of the first miscarriage and run the test then? At the time, I was already playing amateur doctor and internet detective to figure out what could have caused it: I had to ask to be tested for parvo virus and a whole slew of other things, none of which showed anything. After the second miscarriage, I was asking for ultrasounds and worrying that something about the first one had caused some sort of damage to my system. I really had to go through a year of hell for somebody to run some basic tests? For that matter, given that I spent almost a decade on hormonal birth control, which cursory reading about protein C deficiency tells me is a big no-no, this couldn't be incorporated into an early screen for women?
I can't tell if I want to hit something or sue someone* or just break down crying. Argh.
*I would not really sue someone. I am not that litigious. I am just feeling angry and vindictive.
I posted a v. long thread here after my first miscarriage at 6 months last year, and y'all were v. helpful. And I was posting for travel advice when my second one happened, back in the spring. I sort of felt like an attention-hog by the third miscarriage, which was on the anniversary, to the day, of the first one, so I opted for a discreet silence ... but I also finally got referred to a specialist by my gynecologist. Generally, they want you to wait until you hit three, like you're in a fairy tale, before they classify you as suffering "recurrent miscarriage" and do a more in-depth work-up.
And, hey! It turned something up. It appears that I have a blood clotting disorder called protein C deficiency. On the one hand, I'm relieved because now we can start moving forward with treatment, etc. On the other hand, I'm bloody furious with the medical establishment in general and my doctors in particular.
Nobody could have mentioned this possibility back around the time of the first miscarriage and run the test then? At the time, I was already playing amateur doctor and internet detective to figure out what could have caused it: I had to ask to be tested for parvo virus and a whole slew of other things, none of which showed anything. After the second miscarriage, I was asking for ultrasounds and worrying that something about the first one had caused some sort of damage to my system. I really had to go through a year of hell for somebody to run some basic tests? For that matter, given that I spent almost a decade on hormonal birth control, which cursory reading about protein C deficiency tells me is a big no-no, this couldn't be incorporated into an early screen for women?
I can't tell if I want to hit something or sue someone* or just break down crying. Argh.
*I would not really sue someone. I am not that litigious. I am just feeling angry and vindictive.