bar01
Brilliant_Rock
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- Jul 13, 2004
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They say a leading cause of divorces is money issues. For special circumstances such as second marriages, kids, homes, or complicated financial pictures are involved I think it is even more important to have "the talk" before marriage.
So -----When would you have the painfully detailed “money review” – before- or after the proposal/engagement? I am not talking about discussing the basics - but the real details.
I know it has to be done before the marriage, but wonder if getting into the real nity gritty (sharing credit reports, checking/saving/retirement/mortgage statements, plans, etc..) should wait until a commitment or promise is made.
So -----When would you have the painfully detailed “money review” – before- or after the proposal/engagement? I am not talking about discussing the basics - but the real details.
I know it has to be done before the marriage, but wonder if getting into the real nity gritty (sharing credit reports, checking/saving/retirement/mortgage statements, plans, etc..) should wait until a commitment or promise is made.