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SeaStar

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He has been in ICU for a week for a GI bleed/increased liver failure/septicemia and they kept him there all week to run more tests and get him bumped up on the transplant list. Yesterday he had a procedure done to drain what they thought was an encapsulated abscess on his liver. The doctor thinks the IR physician accidentally created a fistula from his liver to his lung when they drained it because his right lung is completely whited out on x-ray and the drainage is much worse. He was really agitated yesterday after the procedure and the ICU nurse told me he started randomly telling her thank you for the great care he received and that he appreciated everything everyone did for him. The ICU nurse thought he was stable enough to be given to an acute care nurse that was floating to the ICU, but didn''t like what he said and decided to change the assignment for him to have an ICU nurse. Around 6:30 he had severe respiratory distress and his PH was 7.0...he was intubated and on 100% with 10 of PEEP and without 0.4 of Levophed he doesn''t have a sustainable BP. He bradied down with wide complexes and they came very close to coding him but he stabilized after intubation. He''s down to 70% and his PH is 7.4, but he has only put out 30 MLs of urine since 7pm last night...they''re going to fluid challenge him today before talking about a renal dose of dopamine. They''re giving him a 40% chance...he grew out MRSA in his blood, sputum, ascites and liver abscess, so he really has overwhelming sepsis. 2 grams of vanco BID....they can''t get an arterial line on him and are concerned about his true blood pressure but are doing the best they can. They are using Fentanyl/Versed and trying to avoid continuous sedation since it makes it really difficult to come off the vent. Knowing what I know as a nurse I really in my heart of hearts do not think he''s going to make it...even if he''s extubated he probably will not be able to leave the hospital without a transplant, and it takes an average of two years to be matched. He''s not a candidate for a living donor. He was a DNR prior to being on the transplant list because he absolutely didn''t want to live like this...we''re giving it at least a few days to see if his lungs can clear and to give the vancomycin a chance to work before we make any decisions. I want to say we did everything we could but I also want to respect his wishes about not wanting to live on a ventilator. He''s having a bronchoscopy and CT scan of his chest/abdomen today and the ICU nurse said the x-rays are showing slight improvement, but that he''s very sick. He''s young, only 60, and has beaten the odds before when he lost double his blood volume from a burst varice, but he''s never been intubated before. I just want good thoughts/prayers that regardless he won''t suffer and that God will do what''s best for him. I don''t want to be selfish and pray he makes it because it won''t be fair if there''s no quality of life for him. Thanks for listening.
 
Prayers, dust, meditations, healing energy, and a whole lot of positive thoughts coming your dad''s way.

I''m so sorry your family is going through this right now.
 
Date: 6/5/2009 10:57:51 AM
Author: Haven
Prayers, dust, meditations, healing energy, and a whole lot of positive thoughts coming your dad''s way.


I''m so sorry your family is going through this right now.

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Date: 6/5/2009 10:57:51 AM
Author: Haven
Prayers, dust, meditations, healing energy, and a whole lot of positive thoughts coming your dad''s way.

I''m so sorry your family is going through this right now.
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I am so, so, so sorry
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Oh SeaStar. I was so sad reading your post. It must be far worse for you being a nurse, everything is clear to you and you don''t have the ''luxury'' of just hearing the basic information the doctor tells relatives. I pray that your Dad will be comfortable and not be afraid. I can only imagine how scary this situation is for him, and the family too.
 
oh seastar....
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i''m so sorry. i''m going to pray for you and your dad and your family right now, and will keep sending prayers for him - that he''ll recover - but also that he''ll be in no pain and comfortable.

strength to you, my dear, and peace to your family. xo
 
I''m so sorry...my heart goes out to you and your family. Sending prayers to you...
 
Hi Seastar,

Being a nurse, I know that you are all too aware of how dire his condition is. Sometimes, being in the medical profession can be a curse. I''m thinking of you and your father. I truly believe that at some point, it is in God''s hands, and that whatever the outcome, it will be best for your father.
 
Praying for your father, you, and the rest of your family.
 
I''m so sorry SeaStar. Much dust and many prayers for you and your family.
 
I will keep you, your father and family in my prayers; I am so sorry. {{{{hugs}}}}}
 
Many prayers outgoing, Seastar. I am so very sorry that you and your family are going through this
 
Hi, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad. I notice that he only has had 35ml of urine output- are they considering putting him on dialysis? When my dad was in a kind of similar situation, they dialysed him.
 
Thank you everyone. I just don''t want him to suffer.

SL - No talk of that right now, they''re going to start conservatively. He''s too critical to handle dialysis anyway, his blood pressure would tank.
 
You have my prayers for your dad, you and your whole family. Hugs to you.
 
HI:

Wow--you have a lot on your plate; take care of yourself and prayers across the miles to your family.

kind regards--Sharon
 
prayers outgoing
 
Many prayers outgoing seastar. I am so sorry. Big HUGS!!
 
Oh Seastar - how heartbreaking, I''m so sorry for you and your family. I will send thoughts and prayers for your father to find healing, and if that is not possible, for him to find peace, and for strength and healing for all of his loving family.
 
More prayers and healing vibes going your dad''s way! I''m so sorry.
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I''m sorry to read about your dad. My Dad was in ICU for over a week late last year and it was a scary period for all of us too although his condition was not as bad.

My heart goes out to you and your family and esp for your dad. Loads of comfort dust out to him too and he will be in my thoughts.
 
my thoughts go out to your father, you and the rest of your family.
 
I'm so sorry for you and your family. I can only imagine how difficult it is to be going through this. Lots of positive thoughts going your dad's way.
 
I am terribly sorry to read that your family is going through this right now. My thoughts are with your father and your family and I am sending healthy thoughts your way... ***healing dust***
 
Your dad is in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us posted.
 
I''m so sorry you and your family are going through this. I can''t imagine how hard this must be for you, especially knowing exactly everything that is going on. Your father is in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Oh SeaStar, I''m so so sorry and will be thinking of you, your dad and family!
 
More prayers outgoing. I can''t imagine how difficult this must be for you. I can completely understand your dad''s point of view about not wanting to be on a ventilator, but I can''t fathom standing in your shoes.

Lots of prayers for comfort, strength, and God''s will.
 
SeaStar, I am so sorry. Already said a prayer and will continue to pray.
 
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