Hi ladies
I wanted to talk about post wedding feelings and start a discussion. I felt a lot of post wedding depression and regret thinking that I could have planned things more or was uninformed about how to make my wedding better, and how to navigate with my family on this issue who insisted on planning it *for* me. I also felt a lot of sadness that my husband did not book our honeymoon in time and prices had gone up (we got married over the winter holidays). We ultimately decided to go on a "vacation" later on but in my opinion, it cannot be our newly wed honeymoon I always dreamed of since our wedding is over.
I also have put on some weight! I lost 40 pounds before meeting my husband and getting engaged, and another 10 after engagement. I kept my fit body for only a few months before I gained 9 pounds back post wedding. I think it's okay, I've gained my appetite back but will work on reducing the weight still. I felt a lot of anxiety before our wedding which affected my appetite.
Now, for our relationship... I have had so many emotions! I am wondering if my birth control has anything to do with it. I've had post wedding anxiety that I'm not good enough for my husband. I've had a hard time communicating when he says something that bothers me (he can make off the cuff comments at times). I've had a hard time adjusting overall. We have had sweet moments and sour ones. We are discovering each others annoyances and what makes the other tick. We are trying to figure out activities we both enjoy that we can do together and finding a balance of compromise. Marriage is wonderful, but it can definitely be work at times!
I wanted to talk about post wedding feelings and start a discussion. I felt a lot of post wedding depression and regret thinking that I could have planned things more or was uninformed about how to make my wedding better, and how to navigate with my family on this issue who insisted on planning it *for* me. I also felt a lot of sadness that my husband did not book our honeymoon in time and prices had gone up (we got married over the winter holidays). We ultimately decided to go on a "vacation" later on but in my opinion, it cannot be our newly wed honeymoon I always dreamed of since our wedding is over.
I also have put on some weight! I lost 40 pounds before meeting my husband and getting engaged, and another 10 after engagement. I kept my fit body for only a few months before I gained 9 pounds back post wedding. I think it's okay, I've gained my appetite back but will work on reducing the weight still. I felt a lot of anxiety before our wedding which affected my appetite.
Now, for our relationship... I have had so many emotions! I am wondering if my birth control has anything to do with it. I've had post wedding anxiety that I'm not good enough for my husband. I've had a hard time communicating when he says something that bothers me (he can make off the cuff comments at times). I've had a hard time adjusting overall. We have had sweet moments and sour ones. We are discovering each others annoyances and what makes the other tick. We are trying to figure out activities we both enjoy that we can do together and finding a balance of compromise. Marriage is wonderful, but it can definitely be work at times!