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I've been planning a reset and wanted to ship my ring to Victor in the next week or so, but it's just not simple to do. I'm in Northern CA, and he's in LA. He won't insure the transit of my stone to him. I'm willing to pay him. I don't want to use USPS cause value is too high. Can't use FedEx due to their insurance policies.
I can book a flight to deliver it myself, which would be around the same cost as shipping it. This might be a good idea cause I could at least get to meet him, and discuss ideas directly. And what could be better than delivering it myself. But I can't go until late April because I am so busy at work right now. It's the delay that is getting me down, and making me rethink what I really want.
I'm worried that if I get an Emilya, I may not consider it a forever setting. But maybe it is unrealistic of me to worry about it at this time. Who can guarantee how I will feel for the next 50 years. I do just love the look of the cushion halo. The setting will look like this, but I'm not getting the split shank. It will the be traditional Emilya shank and donut. This pic is the closest one I can find to my vision of the finished product. Most other cushion halos are with old cut stones, or fancy cuts. This is Donnabrsd's. The stone is almost the same size, around a 2.5.
However, I'm mentally ready for studs. I love my little gold studs. Really I do, but I would like to see some bling there. It's time. If I got studs, I'm not sure if I should get a match to my 1.1 or go for a new set of 1.8 ctw. If I did, I would have to wait until mid-year.
The thing is, with this reset, if I don't do it now, I feel like I will never do it. I'll get used to my setting and be ok with it. I won't ever be in love with it, but it's a nice blingy setting... I do like it. However, if I do, I'll have to wait a while for my studs, probably a couple of years. My poor DH is not a money tree...
And please help me figure out what this means. I have to confess that part of me is considering a reset from the halo to Victor's pave four prong solitaire with double eagle claws at some point. Is that a huge sign that I should not go for the Emilya??!! Should I even allow myself to entertain this idea?? I wonder if anyone who has a halo from Victor would consider a reset.
http://www.victorcanera.com/jewelry/engagement-rings/pave-four-prong-solitaire
In an ideal world, I would have an old cut in a cushion halo, and keep the round in a solitaire-ish setting (Victor's pave four prong solitaire).
But just to torture myself, I am going to ask in a poll what others would do, if you were in my shoes, and why. Keep in mind I have no diamond studs, at all. Ok, (deep breath) I'm hitting submit...