I am just so overwrought with emotion. Our son who married May 29th of 2006 is moving in with us today. His wife has kicked him out and is ending their marriage.
I am not sure if many of you remember the problems that I shared my son and his wife started having, but now it is headed for divorce. As terrible as it may sound, part of me is so relieved, while another part of me is so upset and wanting to cry.
To bring others up to speed, my son married a young woman who has been in therapy for over 4 1/2 years with alot of serious emotional and psychological issues, one of which is physical abuse...her giving it out to my son. Her dad was a real piece of work and was of no help with her phobia issues as well. Her father and mother''s dad were philanderers and so my soon-to-be exDIL has no faith in men in general. It didn''t help matters when my soon-to-be-exDIL''s first cousin threw herself at my son when the young couple was having problems and he fell into a little temptation. No, he did not do the deed, but pretty close to it. Enough said on that. Ok. He was SO wrong on doing that, but she was no angel either with getting him all horny and then leaving to mommy''s cuz she is getting mixed messages in her head!
I have always said it takes two people to make any marriage/relationship work, and it also takes two to destroy it. Sometimes, one person does a little more to sway it towards destruction and in this case, her spending lots of time with mommy--like she did on Thanksgiving--didn''t help matters. She came home from that event and booted out my son.
I am no dummy here. I know my son is no angel as well, but he had re-committed to this marriage and we never saw that from her, sad to say.
I just needed to vent. I am leaving with my husband a little later for our older daughter''s birthday celebration that we are committed to and I am feeling really down.
If you have any advice, that would be great. I advised my hubby that we--he and I--are in no position to counsel our son and not to do a "I told you so" right now. I thank you for letting me vent my hurt...I really was hoping for a happy ending, but I guess fairy tales really don''t exist.
I am not sure if many of you remember the problems that I shared my son and his wife started having, but now it is headed for divorce. As terrible as it may sound, part of me is so relieved, while another part of me is so upset and wanting to cry.

To bring others up to speed, my son married a young woman who has been in therapy for over 4 1/2 years with alot of serious emotional and psychological issues, one of which is physical abuse...her giving it out to my son. Her dad was a real piece of work and was of no help with her phobia issues as well. Her father and mother''s dad were philanderers and so my soon-to-be exDIL has no faith in men in general. It didn''t help matters when my soon-to-be-exDIL''s first cousin threw herself at my son when the young couple was having problems and he fell into a little temptation. No, he did not do the deed, but pretty close to it. Enough said on that. Ok. He was SO wrong on doing that, but she was no angel either with getting him all horny and then leaving to mommy''s cuz she is getting mixed messages in her head!
I have always said it takes two people to make any marriage/relationship work, and it also takes two to destroy it. Sometimes, one person does a little more to sway it towards destruction and in this case, her spending lots of time with mommy--like she did on Thanksgiving--didn''t help matters. She came home from that event and booted out my son.
I am no dummy here. I know my son is no angel as well, but he had re-committed to this marriage and we never saw that from her, sad to say.
I just needed to vent. I am leaving with my husband a little later for our older daughter''s birthday celebration that we are committed to and I am feeling really down.

If you have any advice, that would be great. I advised my hubby that we--he and I--are in no position to counsel our son and not to do a "I told you so" right now. I thank you for letting me vent my hurt...I really was hoping for a happy ending, but I guess fairy tales really don''t exist.
