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Ideal_Rock
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DH and I have been talking family planning quite a bit lately as part of discussing other major life transitions. I am in higher ed, so during 40 weeks of the year, the job requires face-time, but there is a significant amount of time where the job doesn''t require face-time. I feel like my family would strongly benefit if we were able to arrange my due date to as close to the start of the summer semester as possible. I, of course, realize that not all pregnancies are without problems and that this is a very, very difficult thing to plan and many other complications could interfere. But, in the sense that there are very clear benefits for my family, I am interested in planning as much as possible. Also, I have a fantastic maternity leave policy with my new employer (which I am very grateful for) but there are clear incentives in the plan to giving birth in the summer and/or only taking leave during one semester.
We currently plan to try to conceive between August and October of 2011 for a summer 2012 LO. If we weren''t able to conceive by October 2011, we plan to TTC in 2012 until successful, regardless of scheduling. DH and I have had initial fertility screenings and were good on everything that could be checked (which, as you know, isn''t much). We are 33 now. We would like two LOs before 40.
For those of you who tried to meet specific date goals: Is this a realistic option? Would you recommend trying this fall also, just for the extra chance, to meet our limited window?
I have only been talking about this with DH and am very new to this aspect of fertility, so my apologies if I come off as uneducated or naive. I am! I also feel inclined to mention that, since my first baby related thread got off on a bad foot (due some really off-color humor on my part), while I wouldn''t say I have baby fever, I do now see having children as a certain part of my life and am very excited at the prospect of raising children with DH.
We currently plan to try to conceive between August and October of 2011 for a summer 2012 LO. If we weren''t able to conceive by October 2011, we plan to TTC in 2012 until successful, regardless of scheduling. DH and I have had initial fertility screenings and were good on everything that could be checked (which, as you know, isn''t much). We are 33 now. We would like two LOs before 40.
For those of you who tried to meet specific date goals: Is this a realistic option? Would you recommend trying this fall also, just for the extra chance, to meet our limited window?
I have only been talking about this with DH and am very new to this aspect of fertility, so my apologies if I come off as uneducated or naive. I am! I also feel inclined to mention that, since my first baby related thread got off on a bad foot (due some really off-color humor on my part), while I wouldn''t say I have baby fever, I do now see having children as a certain part of my life and am very excited at the prospect of raising children with DH.