haven''t met the father yet and not likely for a while. Daughter is 37...do I still need to seek permission? Don''t want to get strated on the wrong foot but it''s not in the cards and was thinking of popping the question sooner rather than later.
Date: 10/5/2006 5:05:30 AM
Author: reader
My FH asked me first, then was ashamed he didn''t ask my father. My dad was not happy to be asked. ''Son, my daughter is a 31 year old woman. Are you saying I didn''t raise her right that she can''t think for herself?''
Since that conversation, dad has taken us both aside for conversations of ''here is how I screwed up with her mother'' and ''how I wish I had been treated when I was married''...so far, dad''s advice has been right on the money, and we haven''t had a fight since.
Then again, my dad also did the ''man test'' on him when we started dating, and so far, he is the only guy I brought home that passed.