asscherisme
Ideal_Rock
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Ever have one of those days where you just want to hold yourself inside your house and not want to face anyone? I''m having one of those days where I have had so many contacts with mean rude obnoxious people. Agggg.
And to top it off, I find out today that my 10 year old son is having huge social issues which is nothing new for him at school and had not told me and he just broke down today and told me about how he is being bullied and kids are being so awful to him. He told me nobody sits with him at lunch and when he sits down they move away from him because they tell him he is weird. He has mild autism (aspgergers syndrome) but attends a regular school and many of the kids percieve his as weird, odd, etc. He also has tourettes syndrome which of course is torture for a child with others teasing and being so cruel. He has OCD, depression, Anxiety, etc. He has some serious neurological issues and I love him with all my heart but parenting him is the biggest challenge of my life and heartbreaking sometimes too. Especially with other kids in the house that need my time and attention.
He is so darned smart and has a genious IQ (typical of aspgergers syndrome) and in honors classes and kids take advantage of him, use him to cheat, pretend to like him so they can copy from him and then throw him away and tease him. He is so eager to please he lets kids walk all over him. So he had this major breakdown after school and it talkes all my strenth to not cry. Agggg. Thank goodness he has a great therapist but that does not make those awful kids at school behave better.
So my feeling tonight is that kids are mean and then those kids grow up and become mean adults. Thats been my day. My encounters with rude mean people and my son''s encounters with bullies and users who grow up and continute to bully and use etc.
I''m not always so negative but I''m having one of those people suck days. Kids are so cruel. They pick up on a weekness and feed on it.
Ever get those? Share to make me feel I''m not alone!
And to top it off, I find out today that my 10 year old son is having huge social issues which is nothing new for him at school and had not told me and he just broke down today and told me about how he is being bullied and kids are being so awful to him. He told me nobody sits with him at lunch and when he sits down they move away from him because they tell him he is weird. He has mild autism (aspgergers syndrome) but attends a regular school and many of the kids percieve his as weird, odd, etc. He also has tourettes syndrome which of course is torture for a child with others teasing and being so cruel. He has OCD, depression, Anxiety, etc. He has some serious neurological issues and I love him with all my heart but parenting him is the biggest challenge of my life and heartbreaking sometimes too. Especially with other kids in the house that need my time and attention.
He is so darned smart and has a genious IQ (typical of aspgergers syndrome) and in honors classes and kids take advantage of him, use him to cheat, pretend to like him so they can copy from him and then throw him away and tease him. He is so eager to please he lets kids walk all over him. So he had this major breakdown after school and it talkes all my strenth to not cry. Agggg. Thank goodness he has a great therapist but that does not make those awful kids at school behave better.
So my feeling tonight is that kids are mean and then those kids grow up and become mean adults. Thats been my day. My encounters with rude mean people and my son''s encounters with bullies and users who grow up and continute to bully and use etc.
I''m not always so negative but I''m having one of those people suck days. Kids are so cruel. They pick up on a weekness and feed on it.
Ever get those? Share to make me feel I''m not alone!