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Ideal_Rock
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So, after insisting that I didn't want ANYONE to make a fuss for the wedding, and telling my Gals that they are expected to do exactly NOTHING except hang out with me on my wedding day, it seems that everyone is gearing up and planning parties anyway.
My mom's friend has offered to host a little shower / party for mom's friends and those of mine in town the week before the wedding. And now my bff / moh is asking for my sister's e-mail because she's thinking of throwing a party / bachelorette as well.
So now I'm worried that my girls are going to feel a little overwhelmed, with so many events and invitations, and I'm wondering whether to say 'No' to one or both of these.
When I put myself in their position, I mostly think it would be fun. But maybe that's because, uh, I'm not putting myself in their position, and the idea of getting to hang out with all my best friends in ONE PLACE for th first and only time in my life is just really exciting.
Anyway, the proposed schedule now looks something like this:
Wednesdsay night? Mom's friend throws shower / party with in town guests (that would likely include 4 of my maids)
Friday night - bachelorette party
Saturday daytime - OPTIONAL hiking / hot spring soaking OR people can sightsee on their own
Saturday night - drop-in scotch tasting and nibbles at my dad's place (again, OPTIONAL)
Sunday - wedding day, we hang out, eat burgers, get our hair done. I get hitched.
Does that sound like too much?
My mom's friend has offered to host a little shower / party for mom's friends and those of mine in town the week before the wedding. And now my bff / moh is asking for my sister's e-mail because she's thinking of throwing a party / bachelorette as well.
So now I'm worried that my girls are going to feel a little overwhelmed, with so many events and invitations, and I'm wondering whether to say 'No' to one or both of these.
When I put myself in their position, I mostly think it would be fun. But maybe that's because, uh, I'm not putting myself in their position, and the idea of getting to hang out with all my best friends in ONE PLACE for th first and only time in my life is just really exciting.
Anyway, the proposed schedule now looks something like this:
Wednesdsay night? Mom's friend throws shower / party with in town guests (that would likely include 4 of my maids)
Friday night - bachelorette party
Saturday daytime - OPTIONAL hiking / hot spring soaking OR people can sightsee on their own
Saturday night - drop-in scotch tasting and nibbles at my dad's place (again, OPTIONAL)
Sunday - wedding day, we hang out, eat burgers, get our hair done. I get hitched.
Does that sound like too much?