Finding this message board is a dream come true because I have been looking for an engagement ring for a couple of months and have become overwhelmed to the point that I have buyers'' paralysis! This is what I know: My girlfriend likes "square" diamonds so I am going to get a princess cut, and I know she likes platinim so this will be the metal for the setting. What I don''t know is how important color and clarity are and I am on a budget (don''t want to spend more than about $4000) so can''t get the 2 karat, colorless, FL diamond. Can you please give me advice about these two "C"''s please? Given my price range, what would you recommend? Should I go for a stone with really good color, like an F, at the expense of clarity? Or should I go for a diamond with really good clarity, like a VS1, and sacrifice the color, (like an H or I)? Any suggestions would be very much appreciated because I am lost and afraid I am going to make a terrible decision without some expert guidance (and by expert guidance, I do NOT mean the pushy salespeople that I have encountered at the jewelery stores)