I'm looking for a diamond pendant to wear on my wedding day (as well as in general in the future). There are two pendants on an etsy shop that look nice. What are your thoughts on the quality/value/style of the pendants in general? As well, below is the dress I will be wearing. Will such a large pendant be bling overload? I am alternatively considering getting a solitaire bezel pendant with millgrain. I'm all over the place trying to decide what to get. Misa Jewelry also has some beautiful pendants but they seem overpriced for what you get (teeny opals and moonstones).
https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/463412804/14k-white-gold-old-european-cut-diamond?ref=shop_home_active_10
https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/269058495/reduced-platinum-and-white-gold-rose-cut?ref=shop_home_active_32

Thank you!
https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/463412804/14k-white-gold-old-european-cut-diamond?ref=shop_home_active_10
https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/269058495/reduced-platinum-and-white-gold-rose-cut?ref=shop_home_active_32

Thank you!