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I’ve not purchased a diamond via virtual inventory before, but I pulled the trigger and ‘purchased’ one on Sunday. Per the retail vendor, because of a holiday in the overseas country where the diamond is located, the wholesale diamond source is closed this week and won’t ship the diamond out to my vendor until Monday, after which I’ll get the ASET/IS images as well before it’s shipped to me.
Here’s the situation: The vendor from whom I purchased it immediately marked it as ‘sold’ on their website; however, I saw the exact same diamond (same GIA #, images, etc.) on two other diamond websites. Up until yesterday, it was still showing as ‘available’ on those two other sites, but I noticed today, one of them now shows it as having ‘sold’ while the other site still shows it as an ‘available’ stone.
I called the vendor from whom I purchased it, and they said they bought the diamond from the supplier’s website, so it is ‘for sure’ mine; however, I’ve read enough stories on here about diamonds getting bought out from under consumers who’ve ‘bought’ when shopping the virtual market to not necessarily feel I can trust that it is - in fact - mine. My vendor said it may be that the other site (that still shows the diamond available) may not have updated their website yet for that diamond, but I’m thinking maybe the other site has also ‘sold’ it, and there may be multiple purchase orders for this diamond at the supplier come Monday morning. So ... I’m wondering if I should keep looking for alternatives, just in case, because if that is the case, someone else could have ‘bought’ it before me as well.
Questions: Can anyone shed some light on how the virtual market actually works in this regard/scenario when multiple retail websites are listing the same stones? Do different vendors have some sort of periodic auto-update of the diamonds on their website to a source’s database, like twice/week whereby maybe one site has auto-updated ‘their’ inventory while another hasn’t done so yet? Or is it a manual process they all have to monitor supplier databases? I’ll deal no matter what happens with my purchase, but thought this might be interesting to understand not only for myself but other consumers who might be buying on the virtual market to temper expectations.
This is exactly the reason/scenario why I don’t like shopping the virtual market (or ebay auctions). When I buy something, I like knowing it’s mine even if I need to wait a little bit to actually receive it ... not buying it then waiting a week+ to find out if it’s even ‘mine’.
Here’s the situation: The vendor from whom I purchased it immediately marked it as ‘sold’ on their website; however, I saw the exact same diamond (same GIA #, images, etc.) on two other diamond websites. Up until yesterday, it was still showing as ‘available’ on those two other sites, but I noticed today, one of them now shows it as having ‘sold’ while the other site still shows it as an ‘available’ stone.
I called the vendor from whom I purchased it, and they said they bought the diamond from the supplier’s website, so it is ‘for sure’ mine; however, I’ve read enough stories on here about diamonds getting bought out from under consumers who’ve ‘bought’ when shopping the virtual market to not necessarily feel I can trust that it is - in fact - mine. My vendor said it may be that the other site (that still shows the diamond available) may not have updated their website yet for that diamond, but I’m thinking maybe the other site has also ‘sold’ it, and there may be multiple purchase orders for this diamond at the supplier come Monday morning. So ... I’m wondering if I should keep looking for alternatives, just in case, because if that is the case, someone else could have ‘bought’ it before me as well.
Questions: Can anyone shed some light on how the virtual market actually works in this regard/scenario when multiple retail websites are listing the same stones? Do different vendors have some sort of periodic auto-update of the diamonds on their website to a source’s database, like twice/week whereby maybe one site has auto-updated ‘their’ inventory while another hasn’t done so yet? Or is it a manual process they all have to monitor supplier databases? I’ll deal no matter what happens with my purchase, but thought this might be interesting to understand not only for myself but other consumers who might be buying on the virtual market to temper expectations.
This is exactly the reason/scenario why I don’t like shopping the virtual market (or ebay auctions). When I buy something, I like knowing it’s mine even if I need to wait a little bit to actually receive it ... not buying it then waiting a week+ to find out if it’s even ‘mine’.
