I am having a hard time finding a reasonably priced officiant.... ok, what I think is reasonable! Do they all really cost $250-$500? That just seems crazy to me. Where did you find yours? How much was he/she (if you don''t mind sharing)? I would prefer someone non-denominational, willing to incorporate customs from two traditions. I really should become an officiant b/c they sure seem to make great money for 20 minutes of talking!!