kittykat
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 18, 2005
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- 179
I have recenly become engaged and while I have always enjoyed jewlery, only became obsessed with diamonds since my engagement. I recieved a 1.38 pear cut ring that I initially thought was beautiful and loved (still love for sentimental reasons), but as I learned more about diamonds I have become more dissapointed. initially thought, based on the opinion of my jewler (A GIA graduate) that the ring was maybe a J or k color and an SI2 or I1, but have recently had it appraised by an AGS appraiser and it came back M-N I2!!! I am so obsessed by this and I wish I weren''t. Before knew more, I loved the ring. My poor fiance is merely a student and really tried hs best. I constantly look at it wishing it was a better stone. I still love the ring, but I can''t stop obsessing. I would like to secretly upgrade the stone without tellinh him, but I feel like it wouldnt be my ring anymore. Anyone have any input to help me get over this so I can stop being so superficial and enjoy the more valuable aspect of this ring?