nervous_ned
Rough_Rock
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- May 10, 2004
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Apologies in advance if this is a FAQ, but I can't find a clear solution to the following problem:
I had always assumed that the proposer (me) just goes and picks out a ring themselves and surprises the proposee (her). However, I've read numerous posts here where the lady wants to be involved in picking out the diamond and/or ring.
I'm not sure whether this is the case with my gf or not, though I don't think she has much knowledge or strong opinions about this kind of thing. Even still, I'm wary of dropping a big chunk of change (probably $10k+ in my case) on something that she isn't going to like.
However, all things being equal, I'd rather have it be a (near) total surprise.
I'm doing my best to educate myself by reading the forums here dilligently, but I'm not sure what to do.
Thanks.
I had always assumed that the proposer (me) just goes and picks out a ring themselves and surprises the proposee (her). However, I've read numerous posts here where the lady wants to be involved in picking out the diamond and/or ring.
I'm not sure whether this is the case with my gf or not, though I don't think she has much knowledge or strong opinions about this kind of thing. Even still, I'm wary of dropping a big chunk of change (probably $10k+ in my case) on something that she isn't going to like.
However, all things being equal, I'd rather have it be a (near) total surprise.
I'm doing my best to educate myself by reading the forums here dilligently, but I'm not sure what to do.
Thanks.