Treasure43
Brilliant_Rock
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- Mar 11, 2009
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One of my best friends from high school is going to be a BM in my wedding. When she first found out I was engaged she was super happy for me. She drove 8 hours to my engagement party and spent the whole time talking with my MOH about bridal party and bachlorette party ideas. Anyway, when my MOH was trying to plan the bridal shower, she emailed all the girls and asked them what was good for them. BM didn''t respond to any e-mails. So MOH calls her and leaves messages. No response. Finally, MOH posts on her facebook wall and BM responds! She says she has no idea what''s going on this summer and can''t make a committment to any dates. MOH plans the shower on dates that work for everyone else since BM is being so evasive. I try to call BM and she won''t answer. Seems she''ll only answer me on text or facebook, which makes it difficult to have a conversation. She''s supposed to elope this summer with her FI, but she did mention vaguely that he might want to push it back a bit. Maybe she''s stressed about that? If she''s having problems with her FI or whatever or just doesn''t want to be in the wedding I wish she''d just let me know.
So finally, since MOH can''t get ahold of BM, I just write on BM''s wall, commenting on how she''s doing, inquiring about her new job, etc. She tells me she has a new waitressing job and she can''t come to the bridal shower because she has to work that weekend. At this point, I''m frustrated because she could seem to care less about anythng related to the wedding and I have no idea if she plans to be in the wedding. She''s the type who I could see not telling me till last minute that she''s not coming to the wedding. My MOH can''t get even find out if she has her dress and or shoes and I''ve had no luck with that either. Any suggestions? if she''d talk to me on the phone we could at least figure things out but texting and e0-mailing is difficult.
So finally, since MOH can''t get ahold of BM, I just write on BM''s wall, commenting on how she''s doing, inquiring about her new job, etc. She tells me she has a new waitressing job and she can''t come to the bridal shower because she has to work that weekend. At this point, I''m frustrated because she could seem to care less about anythng related to the wedding and I have no idea if she plans to be in the wedding. She''s the type who I could see not telling me till last minute that she''s not coming to the wedding. My MOH can''t get even find out if she has her dress and or shoes and I''ve had no luck with that either. Any suggestions? if she''d talk to me on the phone we could at least figure things out but texting and e0-mailing is difficult.