This may be in the wrong forum but I am not sure where to put it??
I have a situation...... I started looking for rings back in March for my girlfriend. After about a month I realized I needed help, so through hints, and acting like it was never going to happen, and looking at rings on the internet telling her that I was curious how much a ring would cost I got an idea of what she wanted. I would look on-line and she would say yes or no.
Four months ago she said she DID NOT like the halo ring settings. About 2 months ago I had it narrowed down to 6 rings from all the input she had given me. She didn''t want a 3 stone, or a bunch of stuff on the side. She wanted a classic antiguey looking ring. After 6 months of searching I found the perfect ring that I think she will love...
That brings us to last week. I was online doing something else when she saw the halo set ring that 4 months earlier she didn''t like. She saw the picture and said " That ring is pretty, I like that!" As of last week the ring I had picked out was already being prepared. I got very frustrated because I was thinking Halo ring, but when she said she didn''t like them, I took those out of the equation and never gave it a second thought, now all of a sudden she likes them?
That brought us to yesterday, where she was AT the jeweler where I''m having the ring made (she went with a friend), 2 hours earlier they had just called to tell me my ring was ready. My girlfriend ended up trying on the halo rings and said she absolutely loved it and it was her favortie in the whole store. I tried to down play it because of the price tag and she went on to say it can be downsized. Again this morning she told me how much she liked it and how diffrent it was, and how beautiful, and if I could just see it. Well, I HAVE SEEN IT, I was going to buy it until you told me you didn''t like the halp set rings.
The jeweler has a return policy so I could get her the ring she was looking at and loved. However, after 6 months of looking, allot of time, heart and energy I feel the ring I got is the perfect ring.
What do people think. Do I get her the ring she wants? Propose with this one and let her know she can exchange it if she likes? I am VeRy confused. Something that is suppose to be wonderful to me, has just gotten stressful!!
I have a situation...... I started looking for rings back in March for my girlfriend. After about a month I realized I needed help, so through hints, and acting like it was never going to happen, and looking at rings on the internet telling her that I was curious how much a ring would cost I got an idea of what she wanted. I would look on-line and she would say yes or no.
Four months ago she said she DID NOT like the halo ring settings. About 2 months ago I had it narrowed down to 6 rings from all the input she had given me. She didn''t want a 3 stone, or a bunch of stuff on the side. She wanted a classic antiguey looking ring. After 6 months of searching I found the perfect ring that I think she will love...
That brings us to last week. I was online doing something else when she saw the halo set ring that 4 months earlier she didn''t like. She saw the picture and said " That ring is pretty, I like that!" As of last week the ring I had picked out was already being prepared. I got very frustrated because I was thinking Halo ring, but when she said she didn''t like them, I took those out of the equation and never gave it a second thought, now all of a sudden she likes them?
That brought us to yesterday, where she was AT the jeweler where I''m having the ring made (she went with a friend), 2 hours earlier they had just called to tell me my ring was ready. My girlfriend ended up trying on the halo rings and said she absolutely loved it and it was her favortie in the whole store. I tried to down play it because of the price tag and she went on to say it can be downsized. Again this morning she told me how much she liked it and how diffrent it was, and how beautiful, and if I could just see it. Well, I HAVE SEEN IT, I was going to buy it until you told me you didn''t like the halp set rings.
The jeweler has a return policy so I could get her the ring she was looking at and loved. However, after 6 months of looking, allot of time, heart and energy I feel the ring I got is the perfect ring.
What do people think. Do I get her the ring she wants? Propose with this one and let her know she can exchange it if she likes? I am VeRy confused. Something that is suppose to be wonderful to me, has just gotten stressful!!
Just remember that you want her to be fully happy so let her choose too! You’ve done your best and that is what counts!!!
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