My therapy = Diamonds

[Snowy]

I've had a rough 2013 so far and I'm terrified of the remaining 9 months of the year. So far, not in order mind you... I've had a death in my immediate family (I have a very small and close family) and quite possibly a second, death of my beloved pet, flu for a month, diagnosed with disease, constantly in and out of the hospital for over a month, racking up hospital, doctors and test bills, losing 25 lbs in two weeks... having my ribs show through clearly in my skin. It's been.. a tough 3 months of 2013 so far.

I'm finally back on the computer today and the first thing I do? Look at diamonds. It makes me happy. And out of everyone I'm sure that only a group of Pricescopers can relate but it's my therapy. What others may think it useless baubles, it brings me happiness to look at them and shop for them! Equivalent to taking a vacation, meeting a celebrity, or getting a new car. Out of everything, to say that diamonds are something that makes me happy instead of other things makes me feel shallow and spending money when I should be saving it in this time makes me selfish. But it makes me happy so shouldn't that be important?

This morning I spoke to David from Diamonds by Lauren about a big brown colored diamond I spied. Just from the phone conversation alone I would recommend their business. Very knowledgeable, friendly and it seems they will work with you for what you want. The diamond I'm looking at is big enough for my DSS but it's a fancy brown with a lower clarity. That's the only way I can get the size I want and I had never before thought of a brown diamond but after seeing some in halos on their website, it is a very beautiful combination. My husband doesn't like any dark colored diamond or any clarity issues and thinking everyone in our families will think the same, so I'm a bit worried but it's all moot if I can't get it in the budget. If I get it, I promise to flood Pricescope with a gazillion photos but if not, I'm sure there's many more out there for me to look at and I had even spied some that I am interested in with DBL as well.

Basically after all that rambling... Diamonds make me happier than most other things in life and I am not ashamed to admit it..

 

[Snicklefritz]

Snowy, it sounds like an AWFUL 3 mos indeed I am glad that despite the great loss and illness you've experienced, you are able to find something that brings you joy and comfort. Wishing you health and continued happiness through diamonds and other means as well

 

[junebug17]

Snowy, I'm really sorry for your loss and your illness, you have been through a lot, and in such a short period of time.

I know how you feel - diamonds are theraputic for me too! I've been experiencing stress and anxiety over personal/family issues lately, and looking at various diamond pieces and vendors is a good escape. I have a little money in the bling budget and it's fun to think about spending it - I might not even buy anything, it's just enjoyable to think about it!

I truly hope the upcoming months are peaceful for you so that you can rest and recover from all you've been through. And be sure to share when you decide on something!

 

[backwardsandinheels]

Ditto, and PS Dust to you for getting well and soothing your worn out soul

 

[canuk-gal]

HI:

I hope you are feeling better soon.

Window shopping makes one feel better--it can be as innocent as you like! Thank goodness for online vendors and venues (have you checked out First Dibs ???? ), get yourself a cuppa and away you go! Instant relief.....seeing beautiful things makes you feel better. It's the simple things.....

kind regards--Sharon

 

[NOYFB]

Oh dear...you really have had a rough go of it, lately. Hugs and PS dust coming your way, sweetie.

Diamonds are great therapy! I can't wait to see what you get!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

It is really funny, but just today, I was talking with a PS friend and we both said we found PS our wonderful little world where we could escape the trials of the real world. I am sorry for your incredibly hard beginning to the year, and I hope things are much better from here on out! And yes, diamonds are a wonderful distraction and pleasure!

 

[Von03]

Just wanted to send some PS dust your way and some ((hugs)) too. Diamonds are great therapy! A little bling to brighten your day!

 

[yennyfire]

So sorry that things have been so difficult lately! You are definitely overdue for some happy events. I can relate to diamonds being a great morale booster. Looking at jewelry makes me happy too! The brown diamond sounds yummy and I hope that it is on your well deserved finger soon! I hope that you continue to heal and that 2013 turns into a better year for you.

 

[Circe]

Allow me to join in the general well-wishes - it sounds like you've had a hell of a time, and my personal philosophy has always been, "whatever gets you through the night." Well, that and a page from Winston Churchill's book: "when you're going through hell, keep going." I figure if you go in style, all the better.

I'll also say, you're not alone. Fixating on minor aesthetic details helped me to get through one of the less-pleasant period in my life. If I could offload some of my anxiety, stress, and pain into a process that would result in something materially satisfying? ALL THE BETTER. I was IN therapy, so it wasn't just displacement: it was the displacement of a typically addictive personality, because if I hadn't been subsuming my emotions into bling, I probably would have gone up to smoking a carton a day, or something. This was much healthier in the long run, I think - I hope the same is true for you, and I VERY much look forward to seeing this yummy-sounding chocolate diamond ....

 

[Rosebloom]

Oh my, what an awful start to the year for you! Jewelry is absolutely my escape too. I even tend to avoid challenging or politically charges threads on PS because this is my happy zone (In "real" life I would never avoid difficult but important discussions).

I read but did not post on PS for a year or so. Then I had my own version of your last three months. I decided to allow myself the joy of a frivolous hobby - it really is an amazing luxury!

I very much hope you can swing the big brown diamond. And that you heal and find peace.

Tons of dust for a total turn around for you. Hang in there.

 

[ame]

Eep. Dust to you!!! I'd say diamonds are pretty good therapy. Don't laugh but Golden Girls is for me some pretty good therapy. I have no idea why I love that show so much. But it's funny as hell, and it's comfortable to me. I was like 7 or 8 when that show started but it's somehow a staple in my life. I clearly am an old soul. Or just lame.

 

[Snowy]

All this PS dust is making me teary! It must be my allergies! Really thankful for your kind words! I'm just chugging through, waiting until I get the A-Okay to go back into work... or to go outside (the latter is top priority at the moment of course ).

I'm really surprised to hear all this outpouring of support and am really am happy! I just wanted to express my feelings as I've been cooped up in my room for over a month, pretty much bedridden. The only people I've talked to is family and I know that they don't understand my sudden mood change when I got on the internet and started to browse Pricescope and Diamond By Lauren's site. I was on it literally for HOURS until the sun rose. Crazy! And so far David from DBL has been amazingly helpful with my criteria and so awesome!! I can't wait to work with him/ DBL and review away!

I've never seen a brown diamond in real life and hoping that it is unmistakeable as a diamond with it's fire/ brilliance. I want the diamond and have requested to put it on hold. I'm just a bit short on the funds for the setting but will figure it out as I go! I want it blingalicious in a halo! Once it's confirmed that no one can buy it from under me I'll post to it One day on Pricescope so far and already looking at a purchase!

 

[marcy]

Snowy, sorry to hear about your loss and illness. Hugs to you and mega PS dust coming your way! PS and bling shopping is a great way to relieve stress and enjoy yourself. I bet you'll love your diamond. I can't wait to see it.

 

[04diamond<3]

My goodness that's rough! Lots and lots of hugs and prayers! Diamonds are a great therapy for sure. Hoping your year gets better from here.

 

[Snowy]

Truly appreciate the support and well wishes for the rest of the year! Hopefully it only goes up starting today!! My mood it seems is up significantly since the day before yesterday. I'm really looking forward to working on my next perfect project. I have nonstop been looking at brown diamonds since yesterday morning.

Been up since 4:00 am today. Couldn't sleep so back to more bling pictures to help! Better than warm milk and cookies!

 

[MissGotRocks]

Yes, PS therapy has helped many of us through rough spots! Being distracted by something as beautiful and mesmerizing as diamonds is a good reprieve for a bruised soul!

Best of luck to you for the remainder of the year and beyond - sounds like you are finally seeing light at the end of the tunnel - hang in there and soak up as much sparkle here as you can. I think it's just about as healing as sunshine!

 

[Snowy]

Thanks! I'm really trying to stay positive and full of energy but that only seems to happen when I'm shopping... Go figure!

It might be too much info but I spent the weekend spitting out blood and couldn't figure out where it was coming from so spent the entire day at the doctors office instead of going to the hospital again. Horrible/ no reception all day and was told I couldn't leave the house even longer. But as soon as I got back and back on the computer the day got better and totally just focused on what I should do regarding my anniversary ring and what my options are! It's such a big decision and I want it to be perfect! Time just flies!

 

[Smith1942]

Snowy? I see your post above was two days ago. How are you, honey? I am so so sorry to hear about everything you've been going through, and I'm really very concerned for you.

((((Snowy)))))


Please let us know you're OK?

I agree about diamonds being the best therapy. I feel exactly that way myself.

 

[Monnyjay]

Hi Snowy, hope your feeling much better now, sorry to hear you have had such a crappy time lately.

I have to say Ps is a great escape to leave the world behind and just immerse yourself into all the lovely diamonds/jewellery
on show. It certainly helps to put smile on my face if I am feeling a bit flat.

Wishing you all the best and can't wait to see your new diamond.

Take care

 

[Snowy]

Snowy? I see your post above was two days ago. How are you, honey? I am so so sorry to hear about everything you've been going through, and I'm really very concerned for you.

((((Snowy)))))


Please let us know you're OK?

I agree about diamonds being the best therapy. I feel exactly that way myself.

I'm doing good as can be with the situation as it is Smith! Even better because I'm getting the ring! I've linked just the diamond itself in SMTB but I'm not sure if that's normal to do without actually having pictures or seen the diamond in real life or the ring? https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/dbl-fancy-yellow-brown-1-9-ct.188278/

Been literally carted to and from doctors and radiology for the last couple days if not being confined at home in bed and it's just super draining on the body on top of everything. But I didn't want to bump this thread since there are totally most important things going on such as what happened in Boston!
You're worried for me?! I was very worried and concerned for you when I heard that you are in Boston! For my husband and myself, our first and only visit was actually toward the fall/winter of last year and it was the most amazing trip ever and I've been wanting to go back badly ever since!

Thanks for the support Monnyjay! I'm glad that there are just so many PSers who understand when most everyone else can't! Family just goes... how can you think of diamonds and jewelry when you should just focus on getting better as soon as possible?!

 

[Smith1942]

Thanks for checking in, Snowy! It really does sound awful, what you're going through.

You SHOULD look at diamonds and order jewellery! I bet your stress levels went down when you did it. I bet it's physical - the heart rate slows, the cortisol drops...I mean, really, they should be available on prescription!

You need to do what makes YOU happy! And the diamond is gorgeous.

You're not alone with the family not getting it. My family do not understand my passion for jewellery at all. They'd be utterly appalled if they knew the extent of it. It's OK for them to spend lots of money on their own passions, like global travel, but somehow jewels are much less acceptable.

Well, don't let them put you off. Making yourself happy and giving yourself something to look forward to IS part of getting better!

Doctors and tests and hospitals are well scary, aren't they?

((((Snowy)))))

Snowy