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My Soon-to-be Engagement Ring!!!

BlondeAries

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Hi there,

So I have been doing research almost a year now, trying to find the perfect engagement ring, and want to first of all thank you all for your wonderful posts; I don't know where I'd be without you :appl: :appl:

My boyfriend and I started our journey at DeBeers last April wanting a yellow diamond set in yellow gold & yellow pave diamonds. However, the $18,000 price tag (plus tax) was a bit of a stretch. From there, we looked at Blue Nile, James Allen, Robbins Bros., Benchmark Jewelers, Tiffany & Co., and the list goes on. Then, after months of looking for double halo yellow diamond rings, I decided that I was a traditionalist at heart and decided to turn my gaze towards white diamonds. Here enters the Tiffany Ribbon ring. For months I was so at ease thinking that I finally found the "perfect ring" only to begin having second thoughts again after reading post after post on multiple forums.

That's when I decided that the most important thing to me was a fabulous diamond shown of it a classic, simple setting. This past weekend, we started going to brick-and-mortars since we like the idea of having a physical place to go if we have any problems. Robbins Bros. was our top contender since their customer service policies sound so great. Then we saw their diamonds.

They looked at me like I was crazy when I said that I wanted nothing less than an excellent cut since that the most important C to me. So of course instead they bring out a 1 Ct Very Good G SI2 for $10,000 and I nearly had a heart attack. Then they decided to bring out a 1.5 Ct I color I2 Good cut ring for $5,500. Loved the size and price until we looked under the microscope. Ew :knockout:

Sorry to keep rambling, but this is my first post ever and I promise that I'm coming to the point soon... :halo:

After the Robbins Bros. fiasco, we decided that online was best for us, and James Allen definitely seems to be priced great and we LOVE how user-friendly their website is. Also, their customer service has been fabulous every time that we'll called in. So, without further ado, below is the diamond we are purchasing!!!

http://www.jamesallen.com/loose-diamonds/round-cut/1.50-carat-k-color-vvs2-clarity-excellent-cut-sku-279780

Carat: 1.5
Color: K
Cut: GIA Excellent
Clarity: VVS2 (oddly, this was less expensive that S1s and S2s in the same range)
Depth: 61.5%
Table: 56%
Crown Angle: 35
Pavilion Angle: 40.6
HCA Score: 0.8

And here's the setting:
http://www.jamesallen.com/engagement-rings/solitaire/platinum-2mm-knife-edge-solitaire-engagement-ring-six-prong-item-7989

Now, to find the perfect band....any thoughts on shared prong vs. channel set? Also, I'm leaning towards eternity, and was told that they can never be re-sized, just recast from scratch. Has anyone had issues with drastically changing ring sizes after giving birth, random swelling, etc.?

Thanks so much!!!!! :D
 
Lovely! Please do post picture when you get it!!
 
Thank you distracts! I will :D
 
What a deal, congrats!
 
I would size up about half size on the eternity.
 
I gained a ton of weight during pregnancy so my ring size went from 5 to 8. Needless to say I couldn't really wear any of my rings. Once I went back to my regular weight, the ring size returned to 5. I then upgraded my eternity from 1.65ct to 3ctw and decided to give myself some extra room. My current eternity is sized at 5.5 (it's loose) and I figure that I can always upgrade in case it no longer fits :cheeky:.
 
Your ring is going to be fabulous! For the band, I love the Tiffany style eternity. It would look so timeless and elegant. Congrats on picking out such a wonderful engagement ring! Can't wait to see the final product and see what band you choose. With that solitaire setting ANYTHING you choose is going to look perfect!
 
Thank you so much for your kind words and advice! Officially placed our order last night :D

I can't say enough kind words about James Allen. Also, we mentioned PS and saved an additional $250, not to mention that whenever we choose to buy bands, we'll also get 10% off. Woohoo!! :appl:

Here is the link for the band I'm thinking of: http://www.jamesallen.com/wedding-rings/womens-eternity/ladies-1.00ctw-shared-prong-diamond-eternity-ring-item-5162

I would get it with the H-I SI stones in the 1.00ctw size so that it's not too big for my stone, and then the color will match more closely.

This is the other option I was considering: http://www.jamesallen.com/wedding-rings/womens-diamond/platinum-scalloped-share-prong-wedding-ring-item-17550

Kind of worried that the diamonds wouldn't match my K e-ring, though. Thoughts?

@AprilBaby - I'll def. consider sizing up a little bit - perhaps 4.75? I'm usually between 4.25-4.5.

@baby monster - please post pics! That's quite an upgrade :love:

@ hearts-arrows girl - totally agree. LOVE the Tiffany style eternity! Unfortunately, my bf still wants to "surprise" me so idk when I'll be able to post pics :roll: Gorgeous wedding set, by the way. Channel set is so beautiful.
 
Congratulations! Your choice is lovely, and I completely understand your hunt for a great stone as my hunt goes on! Best of luck and looking forward to seeing the finished sparkler!
 
BlondeAries|1392219920|3613558 said:
Thank you so much for your kind words and advice! Officially placed our order last night :D

I can't say enough kind words about James Allen. Also, we mentioned PS and saved an additional $250, not to mention that whenever we choose to buy bands, we'll also get 10% off. Woohoo!! :appl:

Here is the link for the band I'm thinking of: http://www.jamesallen.com/wedding-rings/womens-eternity/ladies-1.00ctw-shared-prong-diamond-eternity-ring-item-5162

I would get it with the H-I SI stones in the 1.00ctw size so that it's not too big for my stone, and then the color will match more closely.

This is the other option I was considering: http://www.jamesallen.com/wedding-rings/womens-diamond/platinum-scalloped-share-prong-wedding-ring-item-17550

Kind of worried that the diamonds wouldn't match my K e-ring, though. Thoughts?

@AprilBaby - I'll def. consider sizing up a little bit - perhaps 4.75? I'm usually between 4.25-4.5.

@baby monster - please post pics! That's quite an upgrade :love:

@ hearts-arrows girl - totally agree. LOVE the Tiffany style eternity! Unfortunately, my bf still wants to "surprise" me so idk when I'll be able to post pics :roll: Gorgeous wedding set, by the way. Channel set is so beautiful.

How exciting!!!!!

I have a ring that's super similar to your first link and I honestly love everything about it. The full eternity is really unique and the 1 ct weight is very comfortable. You should definitely size the ring up at least .25, but preferably by .5. You can then have the jeweler either put sizing beads or bridges on the inside of the rings and they'll fit perfectly (no moving, no spinning, it's great). You can always have them removed or filed down if you need to in the future.

WRT your concern about the H-I diamonds not matching your K e-ring, that's a valid question. Since color sensitivity is very personal and unique to each of us, it's really something you'll need to determine in person. In my case, I'm very color sensitive so I'd probably notice but I was able to see a difference between a 1ct "I" color center stone and the "G" color melee in my eternity bands. There are so many variables when it comes to color though (e.g., fancy shapes tend to show more color, smaller stones will tend to face-up whiter, ideal cut stones will also tend to face-up whiter), so since you're going to have an Excellent cut center stone you probably won't see any difference at all. The important thing is working w/ someone who has a good return policy and I think I read that JA has a good one.

Like everyone else, I can't wait to see pics of your ring!!
 
Great advice Roxy! I'll ask JA if they do beads or bridges. I guess I'll just have to wait and see how bright my diamond looks in person to asses my band color dilemma. Do you happen to have any pics of your eternity band on?

@Juelscott - Thank you! What are you leaning towards, if you don't mind my asking?
 
BlondeAries|1392305673|3614341 said:
Great advice Roxy! I'll ask JA if they do beads or bridges. I guess I'll just have to wait and see how bright my diamond looks in person to asses my band color dilemma. Do you happen to have any pics of your eternity band on?

@Juelscott - Thank you! What are you leaning towards, if you don't mind my asking?

Sure, here's one w/ the eternity band alone and one w/ my e-ring (which is also a full eternity). I included the second pic to try to capture the "scalloped" edge effect for you.

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Gorgeous, Roxy! The closeup definitely helps - thank you :D
 
Oh, thank you! I can't wait to see the pics of YOUR ring, it's going to be beautiful!!!!
 
Got my ring in today!!! I absolutely LOVE it. Incredible the difference that seeing it in person makes. I kept thinking about alternative options if I didn't like it, or possibly upgrading it in the future, etc. But after seeing (and feeling) it, I couldn't ask for a more perfect ring and symbol for our relationship. I'm just so grateful to have such a fantastic BF, and the fact that we found the perfect ring as a team :D

My BF let me play with it for a little bit, and I was able to sneak a pic :devil: , but until he proposes, no more pics :roll:

Without any further ado.....

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Looks lovely! There's a reason the classics are classic. Hope you don't have to wait too long to get that beauty on your finger for good!
 
Absolutely gorgeous and looks really beautiful on your hand. Hope you don't have too long of a wait ;)
 
Thank you Scarlett1!! I hope I don't either... :errrr:
 
Gorgeous! He better propose soon! That ring is way to beautiful to sit in a box. :appl:
 
Thank you hearts-arrows_girl!! I'm hoping that it'll be some time this week, but who knows...

The suspense is killing me! :knockout:
 
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