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suchairman

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Hi Everyone!

I have been trying to post this update since 12/2/03 but something has been going wrong when I try to submit. But anyway, my proposal turned out beautiful. I don't think I would have had it any other way. I'll try to make it as short as possible but with as many details as possible.

OKAY......

If you read my previous post you know that I was suspect that my girlfriend's family was expecting an engagement in the near future but the just didn't know when or where.

I got my girlfriend's family to come from Houston,TX
to New Orleans, LA., thinking they were only coming down for the State Farm Bayou Classic Football Game which was the Saturday after "Turkey Day". Her parents along with 17 other friends and relatives, came down that Friday. I hadn't yet asked for their daughters hand in marriage yet so they knew it probably wouldn't be until I got that out of the way (Very traditional family). They were only going to be in town from Fri. to Sun. morning. So Friday we did the usual things everybody does in N.O. (Riverwalk, Bourbon St., French Quarter) that pretty much wraps up Friday.

Saturday (Gameday/Proposal Day): I made reservations at a nice romantic restaurant with dim lighting and candles. Which we all went to eat after the game (which we won by the way 44-41
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) Before we left for the game I came up with a good excuse to leave the hotel room, made a phone call to her family members and asked them to meet me at her parents room. Once we all met there as soon as I began to ask for her hand in marriage the phone rings
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...... Guess who it is
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. Her aunt answers the phone and she gets suspecious as to why she was in her parents room. So she ask if they had seen me. Of course, I told them to say "No"
So she says: "I'm on my way down their and I'll just leave a note for when he comes back." So I panic, and tell them i'm gonna unfortunately rush this conversation. (I had maybe 5-10 minutes before she got their it was a large hotel and we were on different floors. Everyone left the room except her parents and her aunt!) This is where everyones advice at pricescope comes in to play. So I told them how much I cared about their daughter/neice and that I was planning on proposing but wanted to talk to them and ask their daughter hand in person before I did. I told them I had been wanting to talk to them but didn't want to do it over the phone. They were soooooo excited, her aunt asked if I was going to propose this weekend while everyone was together. I told her: "no because I had not yet purchased the ring. I'll probably do it around X-Mas or New Years." A little disappoint came about, but that was the plan!

So once we arrive at the restaurant I slip off to the restroom (supposedly
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) and met the manager in the other side of the restaurant and gave him the ring. He told me the would take care of it from their and just to pick up on his cue.

Now at the table she new I had a give for her in the car in a gift bag, and she asked was I going to give it to her the next day, I told her she was more than welcome to open it now if she liked. So I give her the giftbag which has a 10inch tall, silver octagon shaped box,inside the box were three black boxes wrapped in tissue symbolizing her sorority colors. She opens box 1 which has a beautiful watch she's been wanting, then box 2 which contains a Princess diamond tennis bracelet(White Gold). Now box 3, Wrapped in a Whitehall Jewelers Gift box, (Her hands start shaking on this one.) She knows this is one of the store where we looked for rings at. She opens it and ... no ring, its a pair of 1 carat princess cut W.G. earrings.

At this point everyone is paying for their food so we can leave the waiter takes my ticket last and says to me: "Thank you all and let me go and get your change sir. I'll be right back"..... pats me on the back!

He returns with the manager who asks if everything was okay, everyone's response was "YES!" He says good and mentioned they were offer all guest a complimentary dessert for customer appreciation day. So he gives everyone a foam dessert dish to go. Lastly, he gives me her container which was different, it had the ring box in but no dessert. The ring box had a light in it so her box was glowing. She had now idea what was going on... at that point I opend the box I moved my chair to get on one knee, everyone in the restaurant takes their glasses and start tapping them with their spoons as if about to propose a toast. The waiter told them what was about to happen as he went to the tables. So I go down to my knee and before I start the proposal, and some guy jokingly hollers out "DON'T DO IT!"
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everyone laughs ...... It didn't mess anything up at all. The hands start shaking again she starts tearing up mind-you she has not seen the ring yet. Then I pull out the beautiful 1.4 carat, White Gold, 24 twin princess cut diamond ring. It was so beautiful! And before I can finish she lets the tears fall and says: "Yes! Baby of course I'll marry you!" That made me the happiest man in the State of Louisiana. Afterwards the manager gave us a bottle of champaigne, my dad and her dad proposed a toast. And everyone in the restaurant started coming around to see her ring and congratulate us, Several women came up to me with tears in their eyes and told me how romantic it was.
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Thanks you all for your suggestions and votes in my poll!
Happy Holidays to everyone here at pricescope!
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Suchairman,




Heart felt warmth ran through me when I read your proposal story and congrats on a successful proposal and I wish you and your new fiance the best of health and hapiness. Everything went well with your element of surprise...Good planning....
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I'm glad you found pricescope a great place to exchange ideas!
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Congrats & Best Wishes to your Fiancee!!!

This old married broad is always up for a Romantic & Sweet proposal story!
 
"Fire & Ice" and "Colored Gem" As always, it's good to hear from you. Yes its true, I got a yes and my fiancee and I couldn't be more happy. Thank both of you for your replies and even moreso for your patience in reading my update. Sorry it was so long but everyone's advice at pricescope played such a big role, I thought it was only fair that I let everyone know how it turned out. Keep it touch!
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Suchairman,

Great proposal. Congratulations.

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Congrats Suchairman!
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I was just thinking last night how I hadn't seen a post on how your proposal went. Very romantic. Only 12 days until I do the same
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"Magna2" and "BigB"

Thanks for reading the update. "BigB" you have my best wishes
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. By the way, how you decide on doing it
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Congrats. I'm new here, just looking for ideas.
I like the desert idea, although it seems it works better when there are several people like there were in your case.

Out of curiosity, what was the light in her desert box? Just a flashlight?
 
Hi tallantan2k!

Thanks for reading my post! To answer your question the light in her dessert box wasn't a flashlight. The ringbox had a light in it(the top portion of the box, it was a small bulb maybe the size of a eraser on the top of a pencil. But it shines real bright. I ordered it online for about $12-$14), and when ever the box is opened the light shines down on the ring adding to the already sparkling diamonds. It kind of has that look of when your ring shopping in the jewelery stores, you notice how sparkly they are? Yeah, so when they brought the dessert box out, the dessert box was closed but the ringbox was open and you could see the light shining through the dessert box.
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CONGRATS!! I've been wondering for a few days now how things went for you. Sounds like things couldn't have gone any better had ya planned on it! Good luck to the both of you and your new journey together!!

Just keep your fingers crossed...we looked at (and I believe he bought) a gorgeous ring this past week. He's been telling me all week that my b-day present is included with my Christmas...so I'm well hoping this is it :D!
 
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