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Ideal_Rock
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Last January/Feb I had problems with a random man who don''t live in our court parking in our private parking designated for our townhomes. I believe I posted the issue here seeking advice, and got some good suggestions...however, as the spring time set in, I let the issue go because parking near our home wasn''t such an issue without the mounds of snow on the ground. Plus, I got nervous--since I''m fundamentally non confrontational. So, because I said nothing and did nothing, he continued to park his mini van there.
Well, today I walked out my home to find his mini van covered in pictures of dead babies. He has them tucked in on his dashboard, taped to his rear window and side windows. He has them *inside* his car so no one can rip them off I assume. Now, he''s always had a bumper sticker that proclaimed "guns don''t kill people, abortion clinics do" and while I don''t exactly agree with his views or the sentiment, his little bumper sticker wasn''t hurting anyone, or visually offensive. But now I feel like he''s gone way to far!
We live in on a family friendly court where there are families that have younger children who shouldn''t be subjected to images like this!!And while he can think/support whatever movements he wants, I find the pictures to be disgusting, offensive, and crude.
I don''t know what to do! I am so nonconfrontational...and these pictures are on his private property. He doesn''t *look* like the type of person who would be approachable (very gruff and unfriendly). I do know where he lives, and I''ve thought about taping a note to his door, but will that be effective enough? I contacted my association who told me I would need to submit a formal complaint and then if the board agrees at the next meeting that this violates the terms of our association, he will be sent a letter asking him to cease ... should he not comply, he will recieve 3 notices before being formally asked to attend a meeting! I thought about calling the police...but really, what can they do???
I''m at such a complete and utter loss, and totally uncomfortable...what should I do?????
Well, today I walked out my home to find his mini van covered in pictures of dead babies. He has them tucked in on his dashboard, taped to his rear window and side windows. He has them *inside* his car so no one can rip them off I assume. Now, he''s always had a bumper sticker that proclaimed "guns don''t kill people, abortion clinics do" and while I don''t exactly agree with his views or the sentiment, his little bumper sticker wasn''t hurting anyone, or visually offensive. But now I feel like he''s gone way to far!
We live in on a family friendly court where there are families that have younger children who shouldn''t be subjected to images like this!!And while he can think/support whatever movements he wants, I find the pictures to be disgusting, offensive, and crude.
I don''t know what to do! I am so nonconfrontational...and these pictures are on his private property. He doesn''t *look* like the type of person who would be approachable (very gruff and unfriendly). I do know where he lives, and I''ve thought about taping a note to his door, but will that be effective enough? I contacted my association who told me I would need to submit a formal complaint and then if the board agrees at the next meeting that this violates the terms of our association, he will be sent a letter asking him to cease ... should he not comply, he will recieve 3 notices before being formally asked to attend a meeting! I thought about calling the police...but really, what can they do???
I''m at such a complete and utter loss, and totally uncomfortable...what should I do?????
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