Hey ladies,
I am sure that we have all had this question, and it makes me crazy! The "when are you getting married?" or the "why aren't you married yet?" My SO and I have lived together for 4.5 years, own a house together and have a life together. For us the truth of the matter was that marriage wasn't a priority for us until recently, so we focused on other things. Now I know my Mr is saving up to purchase an engagement ring. But for others the situation is much more complex, perhaps they have relationship issues or financial troubles. It makes me nuts that people think that they can ask these probing questions and expect an answer. All I say when I get this question is: "I haven't been asked yet". How do you guys deal with this situation?
I am sure that we have all had this question, and it makes me crazy! The "when are you getting married?" or the "why aren't you married yet?" My SO and I have lived together for 4.5 years, own a house together and have a life together. For us the truth of the matter was that marriage wasn't a priority for us until recently, so we focused on other things. Now I know my Mr is saving up to purchase an engagement ring. But for others the situation is much more complex, perhaps they have relationship issues or financial troubles. It makes me nuts that people think that they can ask these probing questions and expect an answer. All I say when I get this question is: "I haven't been asked yet". How do you guys deal with this situation?