Gwyn
Brilliant_Rock
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2007
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Im sorry hun! I would be livid if I discussed something that was bothering me with my FI and he blew me off like that. Where do these guys get off? To me, there is no "It''s my right to do this" blah blah blah. If FI really didnt want me to do something (to the point of begging me), I would either respect his wishes or tell him I couldn''t and leave the relationship. It would be completely unfair to him for me to blow him off and just do it anyway.
Sounds to me like your FI thinks he did some kind of favor or something by proposing and now thinks you will never leave him and he can walk all over you. Maybe this instance isn''t so bad, but I can see something like that repeating itself and escalating. If he has no respect for your thoughts and feelings now, how is it going to be when you are married and "stuck" in the relationship even more? What about when you have kids?
Sounds to me like your FI thinks he did some kind of favor or something by proposing and now thinks you will never leave him and he can walk all over you. Maybe this instance isn''t so bad, but I can see something like that repeating itself and escalating. If he has no respect for your thoughts and feelings now, how is it going to be when you are married and "stuck" in the relationship even more? What about when you have kids?