consider it?
Most of what I read (outside of PS) says a woman must explicitly mention her interest in becoming married for the man to consider it; that men don't respond well to "hints" but that the woman should express her desire to get married if she has one.
Is this true? And what then about women with respect for traditional gender roles who prefer to wait for the man to ask?
All of the marriages in my circle resulted from women FIRMLY expressing their desire (if not nagging their men) to be married. I don't know one man who proposed out of the blue, entirely of his own volition. BUT I am young (late 20s) and I think time will change this phenomenon.
Do men now expect women to demand a proposal? Will it never happen if the girl doesn't ask for a ring?
Please forgive me if this sounds cynical, especially on the LIW board, it is NOT meant to be, I'm interested in your experiences (and perhaps stories you've heard) which partner mentioned marriage first, etc.
Most of what I read (outside of PS) says a woman must explicitly mention her interest in becoming married for the man to consider it; that men don't respond well to "hints" but that the woman should express her desire to get married if she has one.
Is this true? And what then about women with respect for traditional gender roles who prefer to wait for the man to ask?
All of the marriages in my circle resulted from women FIRMLY expressing their desire (if not nagging their men) to be married. I don't know one man who proposed out of the blue, entirely of his own volition. BUT I am young (late 20s) and I think time will change this phenomenon.
Do men now expect women to demand a proposal? Will it never happen if the girl doesn't ask for a ring?
Please forgive me if this sounds cynical, especially on the LIW board, it is NOT meant to be, I'm interested in your experiences (and perhaps stories you've heard) which partner mentioned marriage first, etc.