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Ex and I signed our divorce papers 2 months ago and I have yet to still be officially divorced. We did everything uncontested and even my lawyer said it's the easiest divorce ever since we agreed on everything, it's a matter of having a court date.
About a week after we signed and I submitted my paperwork to the circuit court, a wonderful man dropped into my life like a bolt out of the blue. We both have children the same age, he has been divorced for 4 years. My family is being cautiously supportive as I went through a LOT with my ex.
My children haven't met him, but I have met his family. I want to introduce everyone fairly soon, but out of respect for my ex and the fact that they are our children, I want to give him a heads up like "Hey there's a new person they might meet as mom's friend." I'm scared. I know it's better to be legally done, but we have been separated for almost 2 years and I'm just frustrated and done with this. I want to be with this new person and factor him into my life. My children and I have been a team of 3 for so long, and I want to move slowly and feel things out. I'm so tired of being tied to someone who put me through so much trauma. I feel like the longer this goes on the harder it is to enjoy it.
If this gives any context a few months ago I had mentioned that I wasn't dating anyone and ex said "I don't give a **** what you do." Lovely.
About a week after we signed and I submitted my paperwork to the circuit court, a wonderful man dropped into my life like a bolt out of the blue. We both have children the same age, he has been divorced for 4 years. My family is being cautiously supportive as I went through a LOT with my ex.
My children haven't met him, but I have met his family. I want to introduce everyone fairly soon, but out of respect for my ex and the fact that they are our children, I want to give him a heads up like "Hey there's a new person they might meet as mom's friend." I'm scared. I know it's better to be legally done, but we have been separated for almost 2 years and I'm just frustrated and done with this. I want to be with this new person and factor him into my life. My children and I have been a team of 3 for so long, and I want to move slowly and feel things out. I'm so tired of being tied to someone who put me through so much trauma. I feel like the longer this goes on the harder it is to enjoy it.
If this gives any context a few months ago I had mentioned that I wasn't dating anyone and ex said "I don't give a **** what you do." Lovely.
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