wakingdreams53
Brilliant_Rock
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- Jul 27, 2010
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At my company Christmas party a woman sat next to me and asked if I had a boyfriend. I said yes and she continued on to say a) I'm too young to get married and b) when you finally choose the right person to spend your life with, these 3 things are most important:
1. Children
2. Religion
3. Money
We're on the same page with #1 and 2, but perhaps not #3. SO and I live together and we've started avoiding conversations about money. This was interesting because this never came up in previous relationships, but here it's important. Then I did some research and apparently, a huge divulged reason for divorce is FINANCES! Especially the fact that it wasn't discussed prior to tying the knot.
I want to have the Money Talk with my SO and probably will when he comes home from work today... or tomorrow on his day off...
I know a lot of you ladies have been with your SOs for a very long time, so you probably know their spending/saving habits, etc, but regardless, have you had the "Money Talk" ?
1. Children
2. Religion
3. Money
We're on the same page with #1 and 2, but perhaps not #3. SO and I live together and we've started avoiding conversations about money. This was interesting because this never came up in previous relationships, but here it's important. Then I did some research and apparently, a huge divulged reason for divorce is FINANCES! Especially the fact that it wasn't discussed prior to tying the knot.
I want to have the Money Talk with my SO and probably will when he comes home from work today... or tomorrow on his day off...
I know a lot of you ladies have been with your SOs for a very long time, so you probably know their spending/saving habits, etc, but regardless, have you had the "Money Talk" ?