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I am thankful we are where we are in life right now but we had planned to be further along but for the recession that affected us greatly. We have always lived well below our means but after the recession hit less so since my dh switched careers where he is now earning 1/3 of what he had been earning. But, because we had always lived below our means, we were fine- though it was a bit scary (to me) for a while. We have one home paid in full and took a mortgage on our second home that is about 30% of the cost of that home so we can live with that.
In a weird way I am thankful that the recession hit as it caused us to make a major life change that we might not have necessarily made because we were too comfortable to make that change. My dh had been unfulfilled in his career for a few years (he had been there over 16 years) as the challenge was no longer there for him as the economy had been slowing for a few years before the official recession so he had been feeling it. The recession caused us to reevaluate our future and we decided to purchase a forever home where we would retire in x number of years. We sold our first beach home (which was always just a second home and never could be our forever home) and bought one more suitable for our lifestyle. The major concession being that when we retire we leave our beautiful home in NYC. I am a city girl so that was a decision I thought long and hard about and one of the reasons we chose our new home is that it is 30 min by ferry from the city. All in all we are very pleased with the way things have worked out for us.
I am not sure when or if we will ever truly be able to retire as the economy is still quite unstable and IMO showing little improvement. I always hope for the best but expect the worst and try to be ready when trouble hits. I think that has served us well over the last decade or so. The only certain thing in life is change so one must be adaptable and figure out how to thrive when that change (for the better or worse) ultimately occurs.
Life can be hard and we work hard and do the best we can and try to enjoy each day but always have an eye towards the future. I do not want to live so below our means that we cannot enjoy all our hard work but instead live enough below that we can retire one day and that we are OK should financial hardship strike again. To that end we manage to save about 25% (total rough estimate) of income after taxes that we invest for the future. We also keep at least 18 months of living expenses liquid for just in case purposes. The last recession taught us that.
I am thankful for all that we do have and though we both work very hard I by no means think our success is due only to that but also to our fortunate circumstance of growing up with the families we did. This gave us a big advantage over those who were not as fortunate. We both come from supportive and loving families who put a huge emphasis on the importance of a good education. We grew up knowing that education is invaluable and no matter what happens no one can take that away from you.
Having said that I do believe you can overcome your circumstances with motivation, determination, and hard work but it is by no means easy but no one ever said life is fair. You just have to do the best with what you have.
And nothing is more important than good health and healthy relationships with our loved ones. Money truly cannot buy happiness.
(but it can buy pretty jewelry )
In a weird way I am thankful that the recession hit as it caused us to make a major life change that we might not have necessarily made because we were too comfortable to make that change. My dh had been unfulfilled in his career for a few years (he had been there over 16 years) as the challenge was no longer there for him as the economy had been slowing for a few years before the official recession so he had been feeling it. The recession caused us to reevaluate our future and we decided to purchase a forever home where we would retire in x number of years. We sold our first beach home (which was always just a second home and never could be our forever home) and bought one more suitable for our lifestyle. The major concession being that when we retire we leave our beautiful home in NYC. I am a city girl so that was a decision I thought long and hard about and one of the reasons we chose our new home is that it is 30 min by ferry from the city. All in all we are very pleased with the way things have worked out for us.
I am not sure when or if we will ever truly be able to retire as the economy is still quite unstable and IMO showing little improvement. I always hope for the best but expect the worst and try to be ready when trouble hits. I think that has served us well over the last decade or so. The only certain thing in life is change so one must be adaptable and figure out how to thrive when that change (for the better or worse) ultimately occurs.
Life can be hard and we work hard and do the best we can and try to enjoy each day but always have an eye towards the future. I do not want to live so below our means that we cannot enjoy all our hard work but instead live enough below that we can retire one day and that we are OK should financial hardship strike again. To that end we manage to save about 25% (total rough estimate) of income after taxes that we invest for the future. We also keep at least 18 months of living expenses liquid for just in case purposes. The last recession taught us that.
I am thankful for all that we do have and though we both work very hard I by no means think our success is due only to that but also to our fortunate circumstance of growing up with the families we did. This gave us a big advantage over those who were not as fortunate. We both come from supportive and loving families who put a huge emphasis on the importance of a good education. We grew up knowing that education is invaluable and no matter what happens no one can take that away from you.
Having said that I do believe you can overcome your circumstances with motivation, determination, and hard work but it is by no means easy but no one ever said life is fair. You just have to do the best with what you have.
And nothing is more important than good health and healthy relationships with our loved ones. Money truly cannot buy happiness.
(but it can buy pretty jewelry )