tallblondemonster
Rough_Rock
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This is a bit of a two part question...a bit of background info:
There was never any questions as to who would be my MOH…to make things simple lets call her "T". The hiccup is that T just let me know that she won''t be able to make it to the destination wedding…only reason being is that she recently had a baby and he is too young…baby would be less than a year old and I completely understand that she doesn''t want to travel to Caribbean with baby…so no problem with that…am really sad that she won''t be able to come as will miss her but I understand…we''re having a quick private civil ceremony here (paperwork) and she''ll be my MOH for that but won''t be able to travel for what we consider the real wedding in the Caribbean.
Dilemma 1 is that now there are only two other couples going with us…FI''s bestman and his girlfriend and FI''s brother and wife (SIL).
I''m not sure who to ask to be the MOH…I don''t want either one to feel left out or have their feelings hurt as there is only two of them…I am close to both of them…we usually get together with both couples and I talk to both of the girls during the week so it''s not a matter of the one that is closer…there have been a lot of family issues with FI''s family over the past few months and this brother and wife have been very supportive and have stuck by us which has been a real blessing.
Any advice on how to make this decision and then also how to ask her to be my MOH? This is problem 2...I don''t want this person to feel like second choice since my MOH T can''t make it to the Caribbean…I don''t want to hurt their feelings.
Thanks!