Wedding modesty panel?

[slg47]

my dress currently has a corset back but no modesty panel...should I add one? here is a pic where you can sort of see the back of my dress

 

[asymons412]

I personally would, especially if your affair is more formal than not. Lovely dress, by the way!!

 

[jaysonsmom]

I would add the panel, only because I'd need undergarment support for the girls, and that would show.

 

[vc10um]

I would add one, but only because I could imagine the corset ties cutting into my back, either unattractively or uncomfortably...or both!

 

[slg47]

I would add the panel, only because I'd need undergarment support for the girls, and that would show.

I am probably getting cups sewn into the dress so this shouldn't be an issue.

 

[tuffyluvr]

If youre not going to need a bra, I wouldn't. I like the look that the corset has. It's sexy, but not obvious or scandalous looking.

 

[4ever]

Hmm......yea I would add one personally. I don't like corset backs myself but I do prefer the look with a modesty panel because without to me it kind of looks like the dress dosnt fit.

However, I get the feeling that you would prefer to go without one but are feeling the pressure of conventionalism?

 

[Gypsy]

I do prefer the look with a modesty panel because without to me it kind of looks like the dress dosnt fit.

This.

 

[slg47]

I think dresses usually look better with but the dress did not originally come with one? I am sure it would be easy to add though I just want to make sure it looks 'right' with the dress?

 

[gem_anemone]

I do prefer the look with a modesty panel because without to me it kind of looks like the dress dosnt fit.

This.

Agreed!

 

[OUpearlgirl]

I would wear the modesty panel. Also, just an FYI, if you want to tuck those strings inside, you can. A lot of our customers don't know that.

 

[pregcurious]

I think a flesh colored modesty panel is okay, but I think it would look much prettier if you put in a modesty panel made of lace or even a semi-sheer georgette. That way, it looks like it was done on purpose and not that the dress did not fit.

 

[Clairitek]

I would wear the modesty panel. Also, just an FYI, if you want to tuck those strings inside, you can. A lot of our customers don't know that.

I completely agree that a modesty panel is a good idea!

And expanding on what OU mentioned about the ties, I think they are meant to be tucked in. Though I realize its a PITA to tuck them in and then dig them out when you're just trying on in the store to buy it or for a fitting.

 

[slg47]

I think a flesh colored modesty panel is okay, but I think it would look much prettier if you put in a modesty panel made of lace or even a semi-sheer georgette. That way, it looks like it was done on purpose and not that the dress did not fit.

yes I think a semi-sheer would look good...I just think it would look weird to have a lace dress and a big satin panel in the back! I also think I will make the laces a slightly thicker ribbon.

also OU and Clair, yes, definitely tucking in the strings, that was just me trying on the dress in the store.

 

[wakingdreams53]

You're getting married at the end of May (just checked the BWW list), I feel that if it were in the heart of autumn or winter, a modesty panel would make sense, but the time of year you've chosen makes it more "acceptable" to be without it.
Definitely love the thought of a semi-sheer or lace, though!

 

[mrswahs]

I had one and I couldn't imagine not using it. Definitely tuck the ties in. It has a cleaner look.

 

[Snowy]

Definitely +1 on the lace modesty panel!