ame|1443195494|3931710 said:I gotta agree with this. If you reply, you are inviting her to continue contact and you won't be able to let it drift. She contacted you out of the blue after two months. I'd just let it lie without a response. (You don't have read receipts on, do you? If so, turn that off like now.) If you see her around, fine, you can just say "Sorry, I am just not going to be able to right now and then not say anything about another time, and not respond if she says another time then." Just let it sit there. You don't owe her an explanation. Don't make it a thing.kenny|1443148429|3931532 said:Just cease contact.
Screw Ms. Manners.
I'm perpetually-astonished how miserable people make themselves as they struggle against their nature to "be nice".
Thanks ame. No, I don't have those receipts! I agree that if I respond, I am inviting her to continue contact, and since we already haven't spoken in two months, why renew it. My initial feeling was to drift away gradually, but on thinking about it I'm quite angry with the way she treated me and don't feel she deserves a softer let-down.