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Ideal_Rock
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UGH. So, just had to yell about something to people who would understand.
A little background:
I was emailing back and forth with my mother today while at work. She is currently dating someone who''s been a family friend for about 15 years and they''re talking about getting married (they''ve been together since early March). I''m very excited for her, but told her that he better ask my permission before he proposes!
Here comes the rant:
In response, my mom told me that he might ask me in October when we all have dinner while I''m in town. Then she asks "Is A going to ask *me* anything in October?" With a big ol'' winky face. I told her maybe, but my hopes aren''t too high because I know he doesn''t have a ring yet and I don''t think he''s quite been looking (since if he''s away from me it''s usually putting in a few extra hours at work...), and that if it doesn''t happen by Thanksgiving, I''m taking a hope break until the Cherry Blossom Festival in March (we live in DC).
She suggested that if I don''t have a ring by Thanskgiving that I dump him and move on!!! Ladies, by the time Thanksgiving rolls around, A and I will have been together a WHOPPING 17 months!!! SERIOUSLY!??! After less than a year and a half, she thinks that if I don''t have a ring I should pack up, move out, and move on!?!! Just because she''s ready to head to the altar again with a man after 7 months...even though she''s known him for FIFTEEN YEARS. UGH UGH UGH. When I pointed that little timing detail out, she said she "saw my point"...but didn''t seem to change her opinion. *Sigh*
Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest to a group of women who would understand where I was coming from.
A little background:
I was emailing back and forth with my mother today while at work. She is currently dating someone who''s been a family friend for about 15 years and they''re talking about getting married (they''ve been together since early March). I''m very excited for her, but told her that he better ask my permission before he proposes!
Here comes the rant:
In response, my mom told me that he might ask me in October when we all have dinner while I''m in town. Then she asks "Is A going to ask *me* anything in October?" With a big ol'' winky face. I told her maybe, but my hopes aren''t too high because I know he doesn''t have a ring yet and I don''t think he''s quite been looking (since if he''s away from me it''s usually putting in a few extra hours at work...), and that if it doesn''t happen by Thanksgiving, I''m taking a hope break until the Cherry Blossom Festival in March (we live in DC).
She suggested that if I don''t have a ring by Thanskgiving that I dump him and move on!!! Ladies, by the time Thanksgiving rolls around, A and I will have been together a WHOPPING 17 months!!! SERIOUSLY!??! After less than a year and a half, she thinks that if I don''t have a ring I should pack up, move out, and move on!?!! Just because she''s ready to head to the altar again with a man after 7 months...even though she''s known him for FIFTEEN YEARS. UGH UGH UGH. When I pointed that little timing detail out, she said she "saw my point"...but didn''t seem to change her opinion. *Sigh*
Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest to a group of women who would understand where I was coming from.