FI and I are going to have our tasting with our caterer this week. We are in our 30''s, most-likely paying for all of this ourselves (my parents offer to help, but they''ve paid for enough in my life and are off the hook in my book). The caterer has asked if anyone else is coming to the tasting. Is it appropriate to ask both sets of parents to come to the tasting, even if they aren''t necessarily paying for things? I definitely would like the families'' opinions, but what''s the right thing to do? (FYI, I doubt my father would come along since he''s not into this sort of thing, so I guess it would just be 3 parents).