I have been feeling alittle bit disappointed with my boyfriends behavior lately. We created our engagement ring together and I have been anxiously awaiting its arrival for the past 9 weeks. Usually I feel like I can talk to him about anything but it seems any time I bring up fears about our engagement ring he just brushes it off. I told him that I was nervous about the design and all he says is that Im worrying about things that no one else is even going to notice. And when the jeweler called to say it was completed and being shipped out I was over the moon about it. I called him up so excited and his tone was so flat. When I asked him what was wrong he said he was just tired and to be fair he is in the midst of pharmacy residency which is stressful however I thought he would be a bit more excited about the ring. I felt hurt that he didnt seem to care that our ring was being shipped and I accused him of not being excited about getting engaged to which he said that I was getting over emotional and making a huge deal over nothing. He then adds that I need to be more understanding because its hard for him to be excited about anything right now when the Lakers got swept out of the playoffs!!!!! I dont know maybe I shouldnt have expected him to react differently but I just felt like having our engagement ring was one step closer to us getting engaged and starting our lives together and I wanted him to feel the same way. I know he is planning to propose soon and that he loves me but at this moment I feel like basketball is more important than I am . Am I just being silly?