memorial day weddings?

[slg47]

How do y'all feel about weddings on Memorial Day?

 

[sillyberry]

I'm getting married on the Sunday of Memorial Day Weekend, so...I'm a fan! I haven't heard from anyone that they won't be attending because it is a holiday weekend, although I haven't really heard from anyone that they won't be attending, either!

Here is a thread from this summer on holiday weekend weddings: [URL='https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/holiday-weekend-wedding.145153/']https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/holiday-weekend-wedding.145153/[/URL]

ETA: I'm just rereading it and noticed you posted on the thread! Ha!

 

[slg47]

ha! I had no idea I remember there being a previous thread but of course I couldn't find it. We are considering Sunday of Memorial Day weekend 2012-I will be happy when we finally pick a date and get things moving!

 

[sillyberry]

PS search is AWFUL. I only could find the thread easily because I started it!

Setting the date was a great feeling. Then stuff could START!

 

[vc10um]

slg, I think that's a great weekend to get married! Friends of mine got married on the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend and they loved it because their families were able to stay for an extra day after the wedding and enjoy the sights (we live in DC) and spend some time together...without having to worry about extra vacation time!

 

[yssie]

Very considerate of the bride and groom to choose a time that would not require a painfully jam-packed travel schedule


Well, we had ours on Labour day, so I may be slightly biased.

 

[Prana]

I got married on Memorial Day weekend! The only issue was my BIL and his wife complaining that we got married the day after their anniversary They got married May 28th, 5 years ago. Our wedding was on the 29th.

Memorial Day weekend is actually a very popular time for weddings. Plus, most people get Monday off, so the weekend is longer.

I think it's a great time for a wedding!

 

[slg47]

Prana-that's funny! We are considering getting married on the same day as FI's brother I don't think he'll bug us about it though!

 

[megumic]

I think generally it's a great time for a wedding. However, where we're located, there would be so much traffic that weekend that it would probably be less enjoyable than another weekend. We're in NJ near the beach so a wedding here on that weekend would be a nightmare for those coming in Friday or Saturday and trying to leave Monday, not to mention getting around on Sunday -- everyone descends on NJ during that weekend for the first "beach" weekend. So I think it depends on your geographic location really. If you have guests who are flying in, again depending on location, it may be more pricey than other random weekends. Just some things to consider...

 

[mrscushion]

I may be biased as well because our wedding was on labor day, but I'm in favor. People get time off, it's easier for them to attend and at the same time memorial day isn't a super-duper-major holiday where people always make their own plans / want to spend time with their family / etc.

 

[lucyandroger]

I would okay the date with your immediate family and closest friends and then go for it! No matter what date you pick, it will be inconvenient for someone.

 

[katamari]

I know it is popular. I understand the logic behind it. That said, as a guest, I hate it. I still go and have a good time. In fact, I have been at weddings on every Labor and Memorial Day for the past several years. However, It makes travel more expensive. It is a time when people make other plans (therefore, I find it a bit presumptuous of the couple to assume it will be "more convenient" for guests). And, since I have been more frequently attending weddings of my friends, it means I cannot attend family celebrations (the opposite could also easily be true). Not a fan.

 

[amc80]

I'm not a fan of holiday weddings. Yes, there's the additional day off. But flights, hotels, car rentals, etc. are all more expensive. Not to mention having to deal with holiday travelers (you know, the kind of people who never travel and then take several attempts to get through security...because somehow they don't know you have to remove your belt, shoes, etc.).

The additional day off is nice, but if I'm traveling for a wedding, chances are I would be taking that day off anyway. Not to mention there is usually a lot going on during holiday weekends anyway.

 

[monarch64]

Yeah...not really a fan of holiday weddings myself, either. We attended one last Labor Day weekend and when we received the invitation we both kind of looked at each other and went, "there goes our weekend getaway." Memorial Day weekend is a bit different since it's the start of summer, not the last blast weekend, I guess. Still, as a guest it's not super convenient to attend a wedding when you have other traditions you like to keep, not to mention the travel/cost factor if it isn't a local ceremony/reception...

It's not the worst thing in the world, though, and I probably would never rsvp "no" to a holiday weekend wedding unless I already had concrete plans to be somewhere else or was hosting my own party or whatever. They're kind of like Friday or Sunday weddings, not ideal, but your friends and family will show up because you're important to them, holiday weekend or not.

 

[slg47]

Hey guys-thanks for all of your input. After talking with our families, my FI and I have decided that the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend would be the best date for us. I think with any date, some people will be inconvenienced. However, since most of our guests are traveling, having it on Sunday will allow them to attend the rehearsal dinner if they choose to do so. We will block rooms well in advance for sure.

 

[yssie]

I know it is popular. I understand the logic behind it. That said, as a guest, I hate it. I still go and have a good time. In fact, I have been at weddings on every Labor and Memorial Day for the past several years. However, It makes travel more expensive. It is a time when people make other plans (therefore, I find it a bit presumptuous of the couple to assume it will be "more convenient" for guests). And, since I have been more frequently attending weddings of my friends, it means I cannot attend family celebrations (the opposite could also easily be true). Not a fan.

'twas tongue in cheek for the most part

We had certain restrictions when we were planning - no Friday evening weddings in Jewish culture, no Saturday weddings in Hindu culture, and like you are no doubt finding slg there are a very small number of 'convenient' Sundays... but even then, in the end, someone will be happy with the choice and someone will not.

 

[LtlFirecracker]

Looks like you made your decision, but I just wanted to say there are pros and cons. As you said, having that extra day is wonderful. But it seems blackout dates for travel are becoming more common. I just tried to book a flight to Vegas during presidents day weekend, and round trip was abut $400 (coming from Texas). I didn't realize that was a big enough travel day for airlines to jack up their rates.

In the end, the people that matter will be there and that is a wonderful time of year to have a wedding.

 

[slg47]

I know it is popular. I understand the logic behind it. That said, as a guest, I hate it. I still go and have a good time. In fact, I have been at weddings on every Labor and Memorial Day for the past several years. However, It makes travel more expensive. It is a time when people make other plans (therefore, I find it a bit presumptuous of the couple to assume it will be "more convenient" for guests). And, since I have been more frequently attending weddings of my friends, it means I cannot attend family celebrations (the opposite could also easily be true). Not a fan.

'twas tongue in cheek for the most part

We had certain restrictions when we were planning - no Friday evening weddings in Jewish culture, no Saturday weddings in Hindu culture, and like you are no doubt finding slg there are a very small number of 'convenient' Sundays... but even then, in the end, someone will be happy with the choice and someone will not.

hehe, we are OK with Saturdays but there are lots of weekends to avoid it seems.

 

[CurlySue]

I know it is popular. I understand the logic behind it. That said, as a guest, I hate it. I still go and have a good time. In fact, I have been at weddings on every Labor and Memorial Day for the past several years. However, It makes travel more expensive. It is a time when people make other plans (therefore, I find it a bit presumptuous of the couple to assume it will be "more convenient" for guests). And, since I have been more frequently attending weddings of my friends, it means I cannot attend family celebrations (the opposite could also easily be true). Not a fan.

My feelings exactly, because I usually have to travel to weddings due to where friends and family are located.

If the wedding was local, I wouldn't care, but that's usually not the case for me.

 

[lucyandroger]

Hey guys-thanks for all of your input. After talking with our families, my FI and I have decided that the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend would be the best date for us. I think with any date, some people will be inconvenienced. However, since most of our guests are traveling, having it on Sunday will allow them to attend the rehearsal dinner if they choose to do so. We will block rooms well in advance for sure.

Congrats on choosing a date!