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Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Aug 18, 2013
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Hi all, I've been a PS stalker for a few years and now I need some advice!!
I've been with my partner for about 4 years now. We've been talking about the future recently, the talks have transitioned from 'in the future' to 'when we get married' to 'our kids' so from my point of view the commitment is there. And this is where I need your advice: he's in the army and for the second time I'm about to leave my job and my friends to move with him - this time all the way across the country. While I don't need a proposal, per say, I do need some sort of commitment that no matter how hard it might get we'll work through it and that 'just breaking up' is no longer the easy way out. But hey, a proposal would be nice too :p
I've been looking at rings and diamonds and will definitely head over to Rocky Talk when the time comes to pick a stone (I'm thinking low colour - very warm, and high carat - 5?) but for now I need a little reassurance that men do eventually get there!
None of us want to be the ultimatum-giving gal, but I am making some significant sacrifices (again!) to make this relationship work and I wouldn't mind an indication from him that this relationship is for a long time, not just a good time!
Any advice, please!
I've been with my partner for about 4 years now. We've been talking about the future recently, the talks have transitioned from 'in the future' to 'when we get married' to 'our kids' so from my point of view the commitment is there. And this is where I need your advice: he's in the army and for the second time I'm about to leave my job and my friends to move with him - this time all the way across the country. While I don't need a proposal, per say, I do need some sort of commitment that no matter how hard it might get we'll work through it and that 'just breaking up' is no longer the easy way out. But hey, a proposal would be nice too :p
I've been looking at rings and diamonds and will definitely head over to Rocky Talk when the time comes to pick a stone (I'm thinking low colour - very warm, and high carat - 5?) but for now I need a little reassurance that men do eventually get there!
None of us want to be the ultimatum-giving gal, but I am making some significant sacrifices (again!) to make this relationship work and I wouldn't mind an indication from him that this relationship is for a long time, not just a good time!
Any advice, please!