To make a long story short, I have 4 nieces and nephews. I wanted the oldest niece (she''ll be 6 when the wedding comes) to be the flowergirl. My sister in law heard about it, got jealous, and wants her son (my nephew) to be in it too. So I pretty much have to have them all in the wedding now, bc that wouldn''t be fair. So what can I do with them? There are 2 girls (6 and 2) and 2 boys (4 and 3). I have never been fond of a ring bearer idea. Could both girls be flowergirls? What can the boys do? My mom suggested they walk up ringing bells or something...any ideas?