Hi cyber wedding planners! I am new to this forum and am not the kind of girl who has imagined my wedding since I was a little girl. My fiance has no ideas either. I need some serious help and advice from people in the know like you all. I just want an event that everyone will enjoy. I have some things already, like flowers, dress, location, DJ (sorta), food. I need some ideas about cake (or cupcakes or no cake), decor and bridesmaid dresses. I am going to go with wildflowers for the flowers in yellows, reds, oranges and am thinking of choosing a color for the bridesmaid dresses (green?) and having them all get their own style. Any ideas about nation-wide chains that would be good for pretty, flattering, laid-back dresses? Also, the ceremony is going to be a challenge because I want some Jewish elements, but nothing that will make my Atheist inlaws uncomfortable. I also have no officient or anything like that. What about ceremony music? I don''t want cannon in D (beautiful, so no offense to anyone who chose that), but would love suggestions. So, plan my wedding for me and you will all be forever appreciated! Yay!