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Upgrade this, upgrade that. Spent thousands of $$$ on a custom setting and then get tire of it after a few months... ..don't you feel sorry for him?..
kenny|1392322368|3614607 said:All these ladies should have married me.
Without being asked I upgraded my SO's diamond more than once.
He's on this third.
Maybe I'll take back-up applications in case my SO gets old and ugly.
Seriously, I'll be in line. DH wants to move to California so bad he can't stand it.kenny|1392322368|3614607 said:All these ladies should have married me.
Without being asked I upgraded my SO's diamond more than once.
He's on this third.
Maybe I'll take back-up applications in case my SO gets old and ugly.
jaysonsmom|1392322082|3614598 said:I'm his sugar mama, so he is willing to make me happy with any upgrade I want. This year it's a new car, no jewelry
Chrono|1392326668|3614677 said:I have my own bling budget from my work income so there's no need to be sorry for him.
armywife13|1392329391|3614720 said:I do not feel guilty, though I do not upgrade often. We both have hobbies and let the other enjoy those hobbies, regardless of who's is more expensive. Sometimes the hobby he spends money on is more expensive than mine, sometimes mine is more expensive than his. It doesn't matter to either of us, it is the enjoyment factor that matters.
The subject of who makes more money has been brought up in this thread. I will say, in my opinion, it does not matter who contributes more financially to the household when it comes to justifying spending. There have been times when I worked and contributed financially, and there are times (now) where I am staying at home with our two young children. The fact that I do or do not work has never been a justification for spending or not spending. Regardless of who makes more, in our household, it does not give one person more say when it comes to purchases, or free will to spend more and expect the other person to not complain.
canuk-gal|1392330131|3614735 said:HI:
My DH told me many years ago, "You should have every beautiful thing you've ever wanted". And while he doesn't need to "supply" me with every beautiful thing, I appreciate that he is sincere, shares, and doesn't begrudge. There is no "tit for tat" in our household.
The recurring theme here is that we all work hard for what we have. No guilt, therefore no reason to be nor feel "sorry".
cheers--Sharon
missy|1392330296|3614738 said:canuk-gal|1392330131|3614735 said:HI:
My DH told me many years ago, "You should have every beautiful thing you've ever wanted". And while he doesn't need to "supply" me with every beautiful thing, I appreciate that he is sincere, shares, and doesn't begrudge. There is no "tit for tat" in our household.
The recurring theme here is that we all work hard for what we have. No guilt, therefore no reason to be nor feel "sorry".
cheers--Sharon
Aww, that is so sweet and romantic Sharon!
luv2sparkle|1392330601|3614748 said:I upgraded after 30 years of service! I don't feel a bit bad. Considering our whole engagement fiasco, he kinda 'owed' me.
I bet many of us upgraders have stories. Mine was after 15 years. He's happy I am happy. Nice husband.luv2sparkle|1392330601|3614748 said:I upgraded after 30 years of service! I don't feel a bit bad. Considering our whole engagement fiasco, he kinda 'owed' me.
pregcurious|1392331196|3614755 said:I bet many of us upgraders have stories. Mine was after 15 years. He's happy I am happy. Nice husband.luv2sparkle|1392330601|3614748 said:I upgraded after 30 years of service! I don't feel a bit bad. Considering our whole engagement fiasco, he kinda 'owed' me.
armywife13 said:I do not feel guilty, though I do not upgrade often. We both have hobbies and let the other enjoy those hobbies, regardless of who's is more expensive. Sometimes the hobby he spends money on is more expensive than mine, sometimes mine is more expensive than his. It doesn't matter to either of us, it is the enjoyment factor that matters.
The subject of who makes more money has been brought up in this thread. I will say, in my opinion, it does not matter who contributes more financially to the household when it comes to justifying spending. There have been times when I worked and contributed financially, and there are times (now) where I am staying at home with our two young children. The fact that I do or do not work has never been a justification for spending or not spending. Regardless of who makes more, in our household, it does not give one person more say when it comes to purchases, or free will to spend more and expect the other person to not complain.