katomm
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Jun 20, 2009
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The short version is that we married young (23 and 26) after being together 3 years. He was controlling and I was naive, doing anything and everything to make him happy while making myself miserable. The day we got married I knew we''d end up in divorce, I wanted to run away from the aisle. Shortly after we married he got phyiscal, ending up breaking a few bones in my right foot which still hurts me to this day. The marriage lasted 11 months and 23 days before I left, not wanting to spend the rest of my life in fear.
It was the best and hardest decision of my life and I learned a lot in that relationship. It took me a long time to move on from it and battled major depression and a short stint with alcoholism. I had therapy and it was a while before I''d let even a male friend touch my arm without flinching.
We haven''t spoken in about 10 years, divorced 12 years now. Our conversations were always yelling and tears, never any amicable discussions.
I know he''s now married with kids, I saw him at the post office about 5 years ago with his little girl and a ring on his finger. He did not see me though. So now I wonder if I should respond to his FB message. My account is private so he can''t see anything thank goodness other than the one picture.
It was the best and hardest decision of my life and I learned a lot in that relationship. It took me a long time to move on from it and battled major depression and a short stint with alcoholism. I had therapy and it was a while before I''d let even a male friend touch my arm without flinching.
We haven''t spoken in about 10 years, divorced 12 years now. Our conversations were always yelling and tears, never any amicable discussions.
I know he''s now married with kids, I saw him at the post office about 5 years ago with his little girl and a ring on his finger. He did not see me though. So now I wonder if I should respond to his FB message. My account is private so he can''t see anything thank goodness other than the one picture.