janinegirly
Ideal_Rock
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I''m curious what you LIW''s think--is it really important to you to have a perfect engagement? Meaning all you ever dreamed of: the romance, the down on one knee, the glamorous back drop and great story for years. Is it important that your bf take the time to plan it out to be perfect for you?
Or are you more focused on finally getting engaged and the significance/substance of it all--meaning it speaks volumes that this man went out and chose a ring and is now asking you to be his wife for eternity. It''s not so much about the ring (although it doesn''t hurt to have a nice one, hehe), or the material surrioundings, but about what he is saying and doing and what it all means.
Just curious. Even though it''s just one moment, it does get discussed with friends and for years to come, may even be compared (annoying but it happens).
Or are you more focused on finally getting engaged and the significance/substance of it all--meaning it speaks volumes that this man went out and chose a ring and is now asking you to be his wife for eternity. It''s not so much about the ring (although it doesn''t hurt to have a nice one, hehe), or the material surrioundings, but about what he is saying and doing and what it all means.
Just curious. Even though it''s just one moment, it does get discussed with friends and for years to come, may even be compared (annoying but it happens).