NuggetBrain
Shiny_Rock
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- Mar 20, 2009
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So FMIL has warped our small wedding (under 100 people) into a list topping 150 at this point. I have a small family so the extent of the people outside immediate are one cousin and my aunt & uncle. Mainly its FI''s uncles and aunts and cousins - his mom has 3 sisters, his dad has 6 siblings, plus all their kids. She thinks we should just invite everyone because "most of them won''t come". We know that her three sisters will (which is fine) and we want two of his dad''s siblings to come (and aunt and an uncle), as well as two of his cousins and their families. The rest of them he either hasn''t seen in years, or sees once a year at Christmas. Since we are trying to work within a strict budget, I don''t want to invite people that we don''t see more than a couple times a year, or are more than passing friends. FI and his mom feel very strongly that its okay, because they won''t come. But my thing is, what if they DO come?? Has this ever happened to someone, you invited someone assured they wouldn''t go, and they all did?