ILs are paying for half the wedding. They gave us a list of people they wanted to invite to our wedding. We never approved anyone, told them our thoughts, asked to make changes or said yes/no either way. We haven''t sent out save the dates/invites yet since we hadn''t established the invitee lists. They already went ahead, made the announcement and invited everyone they wanted. Guests have been already booking our room block at our hotel - people that we haven''t invited, that haven''t received any invitation or information from us. My ILs have a long history of being very pushy and inconsiderate and this took me aback. I just wanted to see what others thought to see if I was justified in feeling that way or am I being oversensitive???