bubbly1126
Brilliant_Rock
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So here''s my question:
Since we''re now getting married in October but still having a ceremony (a renewal of the vows) and the reception in June as planned, would it be reasonable of myself and FI to ask my parents to just let us get married now without the family there?
I know my parents and I know how bad they want to be there and I can understand that they may be upset by this as the wedding next June won''t *actually* be the *big special day*... since we''ll have already been married. BUT, on the other hand, I feel that the ceremony and such in June WILL BE *the big special day* b/c everyone, including FI''s family from Italy and Georgia, will be coming to witness. We would like to save all of that excitement for everyone on one very special day, in June.
I know no one here has no control over how my parents react to waiting until June to see us actually say our vows, but what I am asking is if you think it''s a reasonable request? Or do you not see it the way I do and agree with my parents?
Since we''re now getting married in October but still having a ceremony (a renewal of the vows) and the reception in June as planned, would it be reasonable of myself and FI to ask my parents to just let us get married now without the family there?
I know my parents and I know how bad they want to be there and I can understand that they may be upset by this as the wedding next June won''t *actually* be the *big special day*... since we''ll have already been married. BUT, on the other hand, I feel that the ceremony and such in June WILL BE *the big special day* b/c everyone, including FI''s family from Italy and Georgia, will be coming to witness. We would like to save all of that excitement for everyone on one very special day, in June.
I know no one here has no control over how my parents react to waiting until June to see us actually say our vows, but what I am asking is if you think it''s a reasonable request? Or do you not see it the way I do and agree with my parents?