Rachel9
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Date: 1/15/2010 4:06:26 PM
Author: Rachel9
I know I''m a meanie, but you know, mayyybbeee she''s just to soaked up with all the baby stuff and probably lonely hence the tendency towards daydreaming? Perhaps ''Momy and Me'' toddler class could help? lol
Date: 1/15/2010 4:49:11 PM
Author: dragonfly411
Smurf - I''d just avoid her for a bit, or I would frankly tell her, ''You know, I''m at a point right now where I really don''t want to discuss shopping, or what we''re going to buy. I feel like you spend all of your time talking about what you''re going to buy with your paycheck, and I think maybe you should think of what you should SAVE from your paycheck. I also feel like you should really take note of some of the significant things in MY life, because I have things going on too''.
I had a friend who did this to me for quite some time. She wouldn''t listen to anything about me, it was always about her. I ended up ending the friendship because it really did become one sided and it stressed me out.
I do hope you guys straighten it up!
Date: 1/15/2010 3:02:51 PM
Author: Kaleigh
+1. I don''t think she''s being rude, she''s just dreaming yanno?? Have fun with it...Date: 1/15/2010 2:59:10 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
This is stuff she''s just fantasizing over, right? She doesn''t actually have it? If that''s the case then I''d relax and have fun with it. I understand that it''s hard to day dream when you''re really trying hard to be disciplined, but it''s just a dream. If she were throwing new baubles under your nose every day, then I''d be a little peeved about her lack of compassion. But dreaming about what ifs? Not rude at all.
wellll,if she had to wait for her next paycheck then she probably couldn''t afford it.Date: 1/15/2010 3:04:43 PM
Author: Smurfyimproved
i mean if it was oh i really like this, i hope i can get it someday, then i''d be like oh that''s cool and it''d be a great conversation. but really it is more like this is what i''m going to get with my next paycheck, oh maybe i should get this and this too. when i got engaged i never showed people my ring unless they asked to see it so i guess maybe it is just a personality clash...i''ll keep my mouth shut![]()
Date: 1/15/2010 9:59:05 PM
Author: PinkAsscher678
Just say ''So other than shopping, what else is going on in the world?''
Someone like that would bore me to tears!